This is really.hitting home for me, considering I live in a very transient city of 1 mil. People.

I read an article on roosh that discusses the absolutely crucial nature of achieving results on the same day/night due to the massive amount of exposure and options women have in regards to social media, dating apps, etc. Especially if you live in a big city, the odds of you seeing a girl again after a first meeting is drastically reduced, therefore you must be extremely aggressive in such scenarios to get a lay.

It seems that in many instances that not going for an instant date/SDL or ONS is arguably a mistake. The phone really seems like an inevitable black hole that if you are able to stay out of it by persisting and sticking with a girl THAT day, you are getting thrown into a spiraling world of chance, flakes, and bs attention whoring.

Out of the last 10 bangs I've had, only 1 was a result of a day 2, and it has nothing to do with text game or any of that crap and it was extremely difficult to pin down even when the girls interest was very high. 6 ONS from night game, 3 from online meetup same day, and 1 from insta date mall pull.

Idk if this is the best place to post this, but have you fellas noticed this shift in dynamics due to the overabundance of options for women in the SMP? Moving fast and closing has become more important than ever.

The weekly "things are changing ever so fast it's not like before thread"

On the surface things are changing, but the basics of game remain the same.

Cell phone communication is only an upward battle if that's the only way you communicate with her. It's well documented that women are more selective when online dating because they have a rolodex of potential suitors to choose from, and it's all very impersonal.

Nothing screams 'attractive' to a woman more than confidently approaching her in person expressing your interest. Even if she'd reject you via online dating, there's a good chance you can pick her up with a confident approach in person.

Texting can be powerful if you use it to set up in-person dates (unless you know that she's really in to you already).

That's just my experience...