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Jeffrey12
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Hi guys,

Some advice is needed. In a nutshell. Met this girl, got her highly interested took her on a date. Pulled her. Generally our interaction has been quite texting heavy and she calls up quite a bit and vice versa. Got a feeling she's getting a bit cold. Messages aren't as often and the same with calls. She's still interested I'd say but I need to switch it up a bit or somehow get her to chase me.

What would you guys think is the best approach?
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You can't get a girl that's getting cold towards you to chase you. The reason is that she is losing interest in you. I suspect it's because you took her on a "getting to know you type of date" without any type of sexual vibe. Instead of trying to get her to chase you, make her think about having sex with you.

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You can't get a girl that's getting cold towards you to chase you. The reason is that she is losing interest in you. I suspect it's because you took her on a "getting to know you type of date" without any type of sexual vibe. Instead of trying to get her to chase you, make her think about having sex with you.
Well, prior to that we've met up a couple of times and hooked up in the car at the dodgy hours in the evening which led to certain things apart from sex taking place.. What's the best way to save this seem as its not really a goner yet?
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You can't get a girl that's getting cold towards you to chase you. The reason is that she is losing interest in you. I suspect it's because you took her on a "getting to know you type of date" without any type of sexual vibe. Instead of trying to get her to chase you, make her think about having sex with you.
Well, prior to that we've met up a couple of times and hooked up in the car at the dodgy hours in the evening which led to certain things apart from sex taking place.. What's the best way to save this seem as its not really a goner yet?
Why are you hooking up in a car? Wouldn't your place or her place be better?

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You can't get a girl that's getting cold towards you to chase you. The reason is that she is losing interest in you. I suspect it's because you took her on a "getting to know you type of date" without any type of sexual vibe. Instead of trying to get her to chase you, make her think about having sex with you.
Well, prior to that we've met up a couple of times and hooked up in the car at the dodgy hours in the evening which led to certain things apart from sex taking place.. What's the best way to save this seem as its not really a goner yet?
Why are you hooking up in a car? Wouldn't your place or her place be better?
Both live with our parents so the car was the best option at that time. Moving back into my place in a couple of months.
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Both live with our parents so the car was the best option at that time. Moving back into my place in a couple of months.
This is likely the problem. Your logistics are bad and it's causing the excitement to wear off. Have you thought about renting a room?

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Both live with our parents so the car was the best option at that time. Moving back into my place in a couple of months.
This is likely the problem. Your logistics are bad and it's causing the excitement to wear off. Have you thought about renting a room?
Could rent a room at any given time but, as things stand I'd say it's better to escalate again. She still calls, messages and responds but where as before it was back and forth chit chat now it's a bit more limited. Feel like I'm loosing the frame tbh. What do you recommend to do?
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as things stand I'd say it's better to escalate again.
Escalate and then what? In the back of a car again? You've been there and done that and now you're here.

Treat seduction like a fluid motion. You know the girl is attracted to you, so get her out with you again. Give her the boyfriend experience. Walk with her and hold her hand. Kiss her when she's not expecting it. Take her back to a room that you rented earlier in the day and make her toes curl.

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as things stand I'd say it's better to escalate again.
Escalate and then what? In the back of a car again? You've been there and done that and now you're here.

Treat seduction like a fluid motion. You know the girl is attracted to you, so get her out with you again. Give her the boyfriend experience. Walk with her and hold her hand. Kiss her when she's not expecting it. Take her back to a room that you rented earlier in the day and make her toes curl.
Well that's the plan! I've concluded and it's been an issue of mine for a long time. I lose frame very easily. First 3-4 weeks goes perfectly and then I somehow end up treating them differently!?! I subconsciously put them up on a peddle stall

My game is based on a lot of SPAM messaging. Are there any tips on what to do and what not to do?
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My game is based on a lot of SPAM messaging. Are there any tips on what to do and what not to do?
Get them off of SPAM and get them in person as soon as possible.

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My game is based on a lot of SPAM messaging. Are there any tips on what to do and what not to do?
Get them off of SPAM and get them in person as soon as possible.
Thanks for your help btw!

I do. Tbh, I've slept with over 25 chicks the past 18 months. My game as I've said breaks down after 3-4 weeks. I'm trying to locate where the issue exactly is. Is it the attentive SPAM messaging? Telling them I like them? Putting them on a peddle stool? What's the best way to keep frame?
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My game is based on a lot of SPAM messaging. Are there any tips on what to do and what not to do?
Get them off of SPAM and get them in person as soon as possible.
Thanks for your help btw!

I do. Tbh, I've slept with over 25 chicks the past 18 months. My game as I've said breaks down after 3-4 weeks. I'm trying to locate where the issue exactly is. Is it the attentive SPAM messaging? Telling them I like them? Putting them on a peddle stool? What's the best way to keep frame?
25 girls in 18 months is pretty good if they are quality women. If you are giving them more value than you are giving yourself, that is a problem. They will know that you are there waiting for them while they are keeping their options open. It's almost like they'll settle for you if they can't do better.

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I'd say the majority are above medium quality. So how do I fix this issue? It's not as if I lack self confidence. What i do lack though is emotional self control which is a massive problem. It's a long going issue. Once I iron it out I think I'd be better suited for the post 3 week game.

In this instance where the girl has not gone cold turkey but she has become less interactive but still calls etc how would I deal with it best? For example I feel semi anxious at times which is a nuisance lol!
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I'd say the majority are above medium quality. So how do I fix this issue? It's not as if I lack self confidence. What i do lack though is emotional self control which is a massive problem. It's a long going issue. Once I iron it out I think I'd be better suited for the post 3 week game.

In this instance where the girl has not gone cold turkey but she has become less interactive but still calls etc how would I deal with it best? For example I feel semi anxious at times which is a nuisance lol!
This is like pulling teeth. You have to give us your process. How do you meet women? How long before you meet up with them? etc..

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