Hello everyone, I am new to the forum.

My problem is simple: I don't know what to talk about and when I do I don't know how to take the most of it.

I was always a very quiet person and now I'm working to change that. The problem is that I need a quick change, or I will lose any chance with whom I want to be.

I am unable to hold a meaningful conversation for more than five minutes and I can not understand those who speak for hours.

I do not have any experience, but the only thing that bothers me is not being able to be with her.

I wonder where I can find videos of conversations that last longer than 10 minutes.

Any advice is welcome.

P.S.: I'm Spanish if that matters

Take an improv comedy class
Stop taking yourself so seriously
Say what you find funny
Don't give a fuck about people's reactions, say whatever is on your mind
Make friends with funny, charismatic, and charming people
Surround yourself with positive influence
Be a wolf, not a sheep.

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Stop being "perfect." It's time to evolve.

try to observe what shes wearing (tatoos, accessories, clothing, uniform)

try this ask the 5 Who,when,where,what,why but dont make it an interview try to elaborate things
and relate a story also about your self
like what school ect.

for more try memorizing canned routines
my favorites are "what would i do to make you fall in love with me"
gosh you just rejected me dont you know im rich?
you look like you have an artistic vibe a postive one are you into arts?
you walk with synchrinization left right good footwork are you a boxer? then introduce your self shake hands and spin her then tell her wow your a dancer not a boxer

you can do the 5 question game too
and some brain teasers
all these are good if you are new

practice approaching a lot and in time youll become natural you will no longer need these routines
youll become comfortable and will be on auto-pilot
ive been there too bro until now im still struggling to become the talker

You are already impressive so you dont have to fill every silence with words.

Its actually the silence and pauses that creates pressure/sexual tension. This works for you, as it shows you are comfortable with silence, and it also shows her that she must also invest into the conversation.

Being curious about other people, in a genuine way is one of the greatest tools you can develop. This allows her to feel significant and special as an individual, not just some chick you wanna pick up and fuck.

2 opposite mindsets, which create 2 very opposite realities when it comes to being successful with girls in general.

In terms of having stuff to say, be finding out about what makes her, her! How she feels about things. You must find out about her emotional relationships towards the things in her life, not logical questioning.

In many cases I keep things light when i am talking and i create silly roles involving the 2 of us, or i will just be observant. look at what she is wearing, how she holds herself, her expressions. These are endless things you can bounce off and create a good attractive and fun vibe between the 2 of you.

Enjoy and have fun mate!
Chris

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When I approach a girl it's generally cause I've noticed something about her. So I use that. Talk about what interests you and ask her about her self in a way to where it seems like you aleady know alot about her.

"I love your sense of style, my names blank" and then I'll ask a few questions about her like "you dress like you're the care free, fun loving type, wrong or right?", "Don't BS me, I bet it took you a solid hour, hour and a half to get ready today right?" "What do you do?... Oh I guess that makes sense, you come accross as the creative type"

I want to start doing improv too, I will look into that if it really helps.

Mysteriousness is also a very important tool of seduction. You can use it.

When you talk to her, talk about sex but indirectly this can help you and use your imagination.

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Yeah mysterious is super important at building a strong foundation of attraction.

Initially i am speaking with her because I am curious about her. Eventually, as always, they will begin to ask you about yourself sooner rather than later. An example is if a girl asks me what i do, i will respond with something along the lines of "lots of thing"

When it comes to them finding out about me, i give them as little as possible, or equal to their amount of work they are doing to get it out of me.

I prefer if a girl has to drag the awesome bits of me out. The opposite to that is the majority of guys who are so hung up on trying to be impressive that they talk about themselves constantly, sharing all their achievments in douchey insecure ways.

When there its not about me....im there to find out about her, who she is, and how she is telling me she needs to be seduced. If you listen, it becomes clear. They are telling you what they want and need from you in most moments, once you are aware enough to forget about your own shit and focus on her.

Chris

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