Hey there guys.

So couple months ago I decided to go all natural and turn my back on the canned material, with some homework and "external guidance" and some going out, I've made a huge leap Natural game-wise. I had ALMOST a flawless Outer Game, girls would approach me and such, but then... They get to know me So for the past months I just focused on my Inner Game and got it sorted, I eradicated all those little AFC feelings and concepts I had and all the Reactiveness and Approval Seeking I had to girls BUT, one thing, and that's: My jealousy. Back in the AFC days my jealousy was probably the most hideous aspect of my personnality and what cost me my first and only GF I had at that time.

Like when I'm " Gaming " a girl and leave for any reason, and then another guy comes in, and makes her giggle and laugh her brains out, I just get furiously Jealous. Like one example that happened like three hours ago. So there's this girl I'm gaming, one of my guy friends saw my abrupt success with women and just made it his damn job to tell me day in and day out and just keep asking me to " teach him ", so even though I'm no MPUA, I did what I could, so on the course of the last 3 weeks the mofo got real good real fast. And then he just went on gaming the girl that I AM Gaming, with him entirely knowing this, and things were going real smoothe for him with her, so I was feeling more jealous than backstabbed.

My question to you fellow MPUA's, is it like normal to feel Jealous ? Is it just " part of it " ? Or is it an Inner Game issue that I'll have to conquer. Plus : This Jealousy thing isn't me coming from a Scarcity mindset and a fear to lose the girl, I'm quite oppositely coming from an Abundunce mindset, but this is just sooo hardwired in me because of doing it for Õ so long !

Cheers

Yeah I had this. Maybe I still do.

Like on a night out, I would be working much harder than all my wings, and then if they get a lucky result, I would get jealous and angry because I feel like I earned it.

Also, when a girl you have just got the number from starts to make out with a new guy. That shit used to destroy me.

All I can say is, it will get better with time. Focus on other goals of your life and don't make women your priority. (Ironically this attracts them much better actually) You will start to not care so much.

Flakes use to drive me crazy and I used to take it personally. Last weekend I got 2 numbers off smoking hot girls that I thought were solid phone numbers. FLAKE. It would of bothered 5 years ago when I was hitting game hard.

You will be more grounded with time. Good luck.

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Noone has perfect game. You identified your biggest weakspot now, so focus on this one. Once you sorted it out, then will come your next biggest issue and so on. This is how you improve. Sort out things one by one.

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People are more emotionally motivated by losses than gains. Girls have "types" they prefer just like guys; it's nothing personal. Use your jealousy as a spur to improve your game even further.

It's an inner game issue.
You're outcome dependant

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