A girl I've known for a while started getting interested in me, now she's on my case trying to figure out who I like. I told her to guess, and she has, she named a few girls, I said no. And then she said that she thinks she knows who it is but doesn't want to take anymore guesses (she knows it's her) but after she said that she's given me a bunch of iois. Should I tell her tomorrow?

Better idea.. You sound like you are in highschooll so this should work.write " you" on a piec of paper. Fold it up and tell her you want to see her. When you meet you tell her you wrote down who it is on the paper and you will give it to her if she kisses you. Honesty though try not to flat out tell her yu are into her. It is almost always better to imply. To do this tell her if she kisses you. If she is slow and still asks who it is be like. " I think you know" and kiss her again.

That sounds like a good idea, but I think I might change it to. What would you do for this piece of paper? And suggest something. Like maybe a kiss on the cheek, or something else. I don't know if kiss would be such a good idea.. But maybe?

You know better than I do if a kiss is appropriate.. I like how you changed it to have her offer what she would do to see the paper. What I like about this is it gets her super wet thinking about what she would actually do to you to get the paper. It also rewards her. For example, when she kisses you she gets that ego boost of seeing her name on paper. You and I know its a stupid piece of paper but I swear she would give a blow job for it and feel like she actually got something in return. Good luck my man.

Is this seriously a topic?

We're literally passing notes now?

Don't tell her you like her. Just don't.

Kiss her. That conveys the message fairly adequately.

Thank god somebody said it!

Grow some balls and pull the trigger!

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In reality AJ, these guys are half right that writing her "notes" isn't the best approach. It is simply an example of how to lead her into the kiss. The point is You need to build some sexual tension and this is the concept I was trying to convey with getting her to kiss you to find out who you are into. These other guys that posted had good intentions but to just tell you to grow balls and kiss her really doesn't help you.


And great work charles and leo. I can tell you guys have really considered his circumstances and the seduction process before you told him to blindly grow balls and kiss her! At least Charles gave you some helpful advice and told you not to tell her you like her (which I think I tried to say in my original post but it didn't come out correctly. I'll make a point to edit my writing before I post it AJ!)

I gave her a note that said you after stalling for a while..

So I'm not sure if that was a good movie, it's been a few hours.. I used a bunch of kino, she got really comfortable. And she was playfully pissed off at me. She was leaving to get to her car, so I stopped her and gave it to her. All it said was "you" I think it was good. Except. I don't know what I should do next.. I know she's probably really happy with it, it's been like 30 minutes and she hasn't texted me. I think it was good but what should I do next

Look... I dont mean to say things like "grow some balls" but what this all comes down to is outcome dependence. You are seeking her approval before making a move and you are taking the safe option of finding out if she likes you before puling the trigger.

A woman will pick up on this and lose attraction for you if you do things like this. Do you really think an Alpha male who has women in his life and doesnt care if this one woman works out or not would give her a "note" saying it was you.

I have done things like this back in my chode days and you end up wasting so much time wondering if they like you or not that you end up in friend zone then waste more time trying to get out of it.

Make a move. Stop fearing the rejection as all this will do is answer whether she likes you or not. If she does then you are going to enjoy all the pleasures that the female body will bring. If not then you can next her and move on to the next one.

She will sit and take your attention for as long as you give it to her. If you force her to reject / kiss you then it puts a stop to all the nonsense.

So I say again...

Grow some balls and pull the trigger!

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I gave her the note.. She said she liked me too. So, tomorrow, knowing this girl is on my track team, she'll be there and I usually talk to her a bunch during it. I think it'll be a perfect opportunity to kiss her.. I may have some ideas, but it'd be awesome if I could hear from you guys.

Well the point of the note was to get the kiss in first lol but too late for that. Just be cool.

Sequence of events:

1)she texts you tonight
2)the first thing you do is tell her "call me" don't respond to her text no matter what she says.
3) get her on the phone tell her you don't feel like texting. Also tell her you can't talk very long. Don't talk about being into her. Just talk to her normally like you would a good friend. This will show your confidence. Keep the conversations light and fun. By all means if she shifts to romantic conversation, go with it, but you are waiting for her to make that move. You put "ball in her court" and taking any more action will make you seem needy.
4) Display some value. tell her your friend did a personality test on you and it was super accurate. Ask her if you can repeat it on her. text-personality-test-need-help-in-her-vt130136.html
4) Hopefully the conversation is going well at this point. If not, casually eject and 'freeze her out" so she misses your deep conversation. If it is going well, ask if you can meet her after school or during break or whatever.
5) Get her alone. Talk about how your friend(a girl) was telling you about how you can learn a lot about someone by how they kiss, or some bullshit about kissing. This is the lead in I was pissed charles and leo didn't tell you about.
6)kiss her and do more if she lets you.

Good lucky my man. Charles and Leo, do you have any advice here? You are smart guys

Dude, the calling thing was awesome. I was terrified at first, but we both started getting comfortable. It didn't last too long, and honestly, those awkward pauses hardly happened. She started talking about how her ex was a little mad at me being around her.. But that's not gonna stop me, should I deal with him a certain way? And I let her go on about him a little and I told her that the past was the past and stuff like that. I was getting her to stop talking about the past, because she had a better future being around me. So far everything is going amazing thanks to you guys, I really appreciate the help.. But the question is, should I kiss her tommorrow? Or maybe just hold her hand. I think after we got into texting she was suprised I was talking to her in a really good friend sorta way. It made me seem attractive and maybe charming because I listened to what she had to say.

You are the man!

As far as her ex goes, he is history. I wouldn't even talk about him. I would pretend like he doesn't exist. I like the way you said the past is the past and you are a better future. That is gold. But yeah, completely ignore him or neutralize him by making friends with him. If you are successful with making friends with him he will basically sacrifice her to you which is awesome.

as far as kissing goes, do you think you should? Can you get her alone? how much time alone can you get with her? you don't have to answer those questions to me, but you should be thinking about them when deciding when to make the move.

Well done ur doing great

The ex BF stuff is a shit test and should be treated like one. Give it no power. If she mentions it again
Don't give it any energy at all and just move on to something else.

If she mentions again say this line.. 'i don't really get involved in drama' ..then move on.

Only you will know if the kiss is the right time.

Good luck and report back

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