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Okay, so about a week ago I kind of lost myself in my schoolwork and in the more detailed aspects of pickup. I was getting really bogged down because all I was doing was studying theory and trying to apply it at face value. For anyone out there who wants to try this I strongly recommend against it. Practice natural game and figure out how to take the theory you learn (which I see serves more as a template) and apply it to your personality so it becomes more organic when you talk to ladies.
Anyhow, today I started to practice my natural game and holy crap did it work. I go to the mall sit down at the food court with this beautiful black woman (this was kind of funny btw bc I was thinking to myself the other day that I need to game more black ladies). First I say something to her she rejects me (so I laugh – but I think she didn’t hear me). It turns out it was her birthday today and she had been partying a lot last night (she showed me the pics as she began to open up more to me). I made her laugh and she was giving me some IOIs so I felt like it was only right to get her number. It turns out she just turned 31 today and has a kid and I’m 23. She shit tested me a couple of times about my age and what not. I fired back at her and she was impressed. (*Just as a side note to new guys like myself. I had been truly opposed to talking to milfs in the past bc I really only saw myself gaming girls my own age. After flirting a milf up, I am starting to think that milfs are much easier to game than any girl my age.) Anyway, I want truly want her to be my first chocolate experience so I don’t want to mess this up.
I need some advice from you fellas. Idk how to go about texting her bc my text game in the past had been mostly needy and not too alpha (this is one of my sticking points that I am truly looking into developing more). Does anyone know of any good sources to learn how to text a milf properly? My other concern is that I really am not looking for a relationship. Do I just flat out tell her that I don’t want one but still want to bang?
Just as a side note on natural game. I wound up going indirect at first but then at one point just saying f**k it and went in for the number and telling her she was cute. Do you gentlemen suggest going more direct from the start or is it okay to start out indirect and work into it? I personally enjoy being direct but I am coming back to game after a week so I think that kind of explains the outcome for this approach?
GPUA
Do what you feel confident with. Plus i find that direct goes a lot better
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