i'm a relative newbie...only 6 months in the game but ive studied material shit loads and been out at least 4 times a week and done two months of going out every night its been a blast...i learned very quickly that getting good at game takes time,a strong work ethic,patience,disapline,positivity and a belief that as long as you keep chipping away you'll eventually get there ,going out alot and approaching are essential....so....ive been going out mainly 4 nights a week and two months of going out every night always approching...at least 8 girls...often much more...and ive been laid 3 times two 7s and one 9...made out with lots.


some nights ive left part of my soul in a nightclub...after approach 30 or so girls and not even managing to get past the opening stage...it can be demoralising but you have to pick urself up and carry on these nights are essentail to getting good at pick up when contrasted with the good nights when everyone hooks and you end up getting approached....a) it makes you auto correct b) the bad nights give you the strength to not care and realise the stupidity of it all and teaches you to become non outcome dependent.

another thing id like to share is the rsd alex idea of 'theres no reason why your not enough' its a broad term but for me it means you can become the master of your own self esteem ,you decide the reasons your a cool guy not what others or the media tell you theres no objective truth...be your own idea of whats cool...anything can make you cool its all up to the way you process it....for example being shy can be cool...being intrespective and deep or nervous and weird...its up to you!....

anyway...whats ur story.?

Good post dude, rejection is a bitch and my approach anxiety has kept me out of the game for months. Your story is inspiring, makes me want to suck it up and get back out there. Thanks.

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