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How would you describe younger women (18-20) who hang in chatrooms regularly? Is there something off about them, very lonely, depressed ...?

Reason why I'm asking, I met a girl in one random chatroom I visited just for fun, with a nasty nickname. We met 5 times and we text regularly. Yesterday I went to that same chatroom with similar disgusting nickname and one girl clicked me, we had a great chat, and than she asked me for my SPAM.

Some things she said about herself, and the smileys she uses and the way she writes reminded me about that girl that i've met a lot, so she could be her.

Should I be careful with these type of girls?

I would always be careful with meeting through the internet. Some guys love gaming through dating websites or craigslist, but it isn't for me. Personally, I rather meet women face to face. Otherwise how do you know anything they are saying (even the most basic info, like that they are a 20 year old female) is true?

If they are in chatrooms that means their social circles aren't filling their needs. Maybe they are just looking for a random stranger to get all hot and bothered with. Maybe they are too self-conscious (sometime with good reason) to be able to get a guy in real life).

DirtyCumGirl495 may actually be a 300 lb guy just looking to get off. Or some guy looking to lure someone over and rob them (there has been more than just a few cases of this in my city).

If you are going to do it online try to move towards cam/snapchat/etc as soon as possible to verify what you are in for.

Cheers,
Lucas

actually I've seen this girl in person, I have her facebook, we've met and she seems normal. But I went back to the chatroom to check if she hangs regularly there, and so, that happened.

So I'm worried that she is just an attention freak, I also suspect she has created fake SPAM account that seems like she really is that person she says she is and gives out her SPAM to every guy in a chatroom.

If you are interested in her but want to find out if she is just an attention whore (or a super easy girl), this is what I would do:

1. Create a new avatar/name/lifestyle and chat with her online (as a new stranger)
2. Push sexual tension into the convo (see how far you can take it)
3. See if you can set up a meeting with her in person (obviously you won't actually go..)

Depending on the response you get (& if she agree's to meet your alter ego in person) then you know she is just an attention whore who you probably don't want to sleep with / engage with due to her low value (as she accepts sexual advances from everyone).

- Lucas