I was in a bar with friends and after a few drinks I just stopped by the bar and to eat a sandwich and a drink. This girl kind of have some eye contact with me. I was not really looking but a beautiful woman like that is difficult to miss. Anyway here in Cleveland the bars close at 2:00 am and when the bar was closing I was just passing in front of her when she said. This is a really nice man. She was with a group of probably 10 guys around her who I noted were hitting on her all the time. I am much more confident now that I have gone some material from Lance Mason, Mystery, Neil Strauss and more but still learning a lot. I sometimes come back home and rethink the day to see what have I done wrong. Now decided to use the forum and see.

I wonder what I should have done in that situation. Just giving a look and walking away did not do anything for me. I kind of thought may be just walking to her in the middle of all that guys and introduce to her or something such as eye contact and just ask her to come here and talk to her would have worked also.

Suggestions and criticisms?

You want to engage the girl man. "Nah you've got me mistaken for someone else I'm not a nice guy." Say whatever comes to mind. Obviously walking away is not going to get you anywhere and of course you already know that. Get in a little back & forth convo w/ the girl and proceed from there.

"Heh, what makes you say that?" Then spew some bullshit about certain features portray a "Nice man" persona but the reality is you're actually quite naughty if she doesn't take the bait.

Never underestimate the power of being witty and funny.
Her: "This is a really nice man"
Me: (Turn around, strong eye contact towards her
and don't acknowledge the other guys there)

*Sarcastically*
"I come to the bar to feel like a macho shit and this the thanks I get?!"

This would make her laugh and she will 9/10 times ask you a follow up
question..keep the cocky funny going and DON'T acknowledge the other guys
there...you are there to talk to her and you don't give shit about anyone
who is around her. I've been in this scenario a couple times, nerve racking
but she will be completely turned on by how confident you are. One time
at a party example:

Me: "Did you come to the party with all those losers?"
Her: "No those are my friends friends and how do you know they're losers?"
Me: *Sarcastically with a sly smile*
"Because they are nothing like me"
Her: *smiles* "Well how are you?"

We spent the whole party together

Hugo Moreno
http://www.thinkandattractwoman.com