Basically at college I've had an inner game plunge and I'm no where near as confident. How do I act around girls in my classes or when were working on a project together? Is their any special type of game?? Help me please!

Thanks, Phaser22

The first thing that strikes me about your post is the title. I wouldn't go so far as say you're "acting". It's all behavior and in the end think of it this way: everything is cause & effect. That's the only truth in this World and reliable system we have. It either has a positive response, or a negative one. You're simply changing your behavior so that you're having more positive responses. There's so much negative light around "acting" or "behavior modification" when really what we're seeking out is changing their responses and their behavior towards us. There is no shame in that.

What I've found to be most helpful is to really be prepared in class. If you're sitting in the front, and you are asking questions to the teachers then a lot of people naturally with gravitate toward you. In some ways you've already broken the ice between you and the class by putting yourself out there and you've always put a favorable impression out there by showing you're confident and interested in something beyond the girls. Almost everyone is at college to get out of college, if you understand what I mean. If you show your value as a wiz in class you will be both more approachable, and women will be more open to your approaches since you've established some credibility. Beyond that, I always notice that people choose their spots early in the semester. If you chat up the kid behind you, who usually sits there every class, then you can start to establish an SPAM where people actually chat. Make it routine that you make friends in your classes because these guys, and even girls all have social networks far beyond the classroom.

Seriously? Just do what you usually do and be yourself. Thumbs up to the post above