Bad Influence Game
first, the wrong way to do this is to come from the place of having an agenda or being manipulative, where you want to get sex by learning a trick, this is a game, based on rules, based on what has given me the best results, but when I go out and do this stuff I don’t come from a place of “trying to get something” -sometimes I get a little excited because a lot is going on and I’ll brag in a way that seem’s like it, but overall I’m really just a normal person, putting myself out there & seeing what happens in a way that’s as hopefully as innocent & noninvasive as possible, anything else wouldn’t work because people can smell bullshit from a mile away & I’d just get rejected, mocked & labeled a creep if I wasn’t being myself.
ok, now..
first, always initiate never sit around staring at a girl waiting for something to happen, when you engage a girl.. even with weird little eye contact while you cross paths.. you have about 2 seconds to move things forward or she’s gonna go about her day & forget you exist.
always smile and say hi to girls who give you eye contact… it’s been scientifically proven that we can’t help but to look at attractive people, any time you get eye contact just say hi because it probably means she thinks your cute, but you wont know for sure unless you talk to her so it’s always worth trying & even if you don’t get eye contact you should still smile and say hi anyway, so what if she doesn’t think your cute right away? that’s what chemistry is for, if you have chemistry she’ll find a reason to think your cute.
just smile and say hi, anything you tried hard to come up with to impress her is corny, just smile and say hi
ask questions and joke around to build chemistry
Move the interaction forward (get the number, set up date, give arousal etc)
the goal is to give arousal, not get sex… telling a girl what you think she wants to hear will never ever ever work because it A. doesn’t turn her on and B. comes off desperate & manipulative even if that’s not really the type of person you are, instead you need to turn her on & move the interaction forward.
& that’s because the best way to get sex is to give arousal and bring out a girl’s sexual side until it’s harder to say no than it is to say yes. (aka she’s gonna get the equivalent of “blue balls” if she doesn’t have sex immediately)
talking about sex can lead to sex happening
if you know a girl is horny or getting there, make up any excuse to get her alone with you & go for it.
do not get overly confident and outright say you intend to have sex with her before there’s enough chemistry to justify that type of statement, 99% of women will feel slutty & put their guard up.
however if she’s aroused enough you can say stuff like that and it’s only gonna make her more horny, for instance I call girl’s “sluts” and tell them I’m gonna “fuck the shit out of them”, but it only works when their aroused enough, otherwise I don’t do it… it’s really just something crazy and intense I say to get them excited (in a “I can’t believe you said that” way) and amp up how horny they already are, if a girl’s not getting horny & the situation wont move forward I might just swing for the fences & say something really ballsy like fuck it, but there’s usually a time and place for stuff like that.
no matter what girls lead you to believe, most girls want you to take them somewhere and have sex with them but they just don’t want to be responsible for it, so you have to make it “your fault”, especially if you don’t really know her that well.(blame it on the a-a-a-alcohol)
if your at a party or social gathering, don’t focus on girls, focus on having a good time & girl’s will be focused on you because your having more fun then them.
if your alone at a party or social gathering, you have to focus on girl’s in order to have fun, so don’t talk to them to run game, talk to them just for fun & to make friends and work on running game after your having fun otherwise you run the risk of being the creepy pathetic looser who’s not having fun because he just wants to get laid.
the way you win this game is through chemistry and arousal, getting to know people in a way that’s fun and cool but also being comfortable enough with your own sexuality to inspire girls to be comfortable with their’s & enjoy themselves in a way the world tells them their not allowed to.
How To Give Chemistry and Arousal:
Chemistry
Giving Chemistry is just another word for keeping the girl engaged by your personality, its fairly easy once you get the hang of it, but to get started there’s two techniques you can use & always come back to if you find yourself in a awkward or boring situation.
1. Ask a lot of questions, or in other words; be interested in the girl. focus on the things your curious about, where she works, what she does, why she does it, any question within reason works, you goal is to engage her attention by asking her about the one thing we know she’s interested in -herself.
2. Say whatever pop’s in your head but frame it as a joke using a mildly sarcastic tone: I like your shoes.. I like your butt.. your very pretty.. it has no weight, your just kidding, not taking a girl serious and being able to treat the interaction like a joke is something only a confident dude can do, its the best way to build chemistry because it take’s the pressure to be perfect off you both & lets your real personalities shine.
How do you know it’s working?
Well that’s a difficult question to answer, every girl is different but as a rule of thumb I say if she’s laughing it’s working, but some situations can be different, I tend to look for signs she’s investing, like her trying to sell herself to me, giving me a lot of attention, or her trying to steer the interaction in a sexual direction, almost no girl will outright put sex on the table, but they have a indirect way of trying to throw hints at you.
Arousal
Arousal, to me… mean’s making sex hard to resist, bringing out a girl’s sexual side, making her horny, dominating her physically, touching her in a sexual way, leading her etc. the list goes on, but there’s a few go-to moves I use to accomplish this.
1. sexual chemistry, simple, ask sexual questions your genuinely interested in; do you like it rough? whats your favorite position? do you like hair pulling? ass smacking? would you make out with me? I would so bang you right now lol,
2. Over-escalating, this is where you put sex on the table & do it in such a ballsy way that it shocks her & she’s turned on by how confident you are; so this would include making out with a girl you just met, suddenly initiating physical dominance, putting her hand on your dick, anything bold and crazy… you need a little bit more chemistry to make this happen, but when it works, it’s pretty awesome.
3. Physical Dominance and Sexual Touching; So this means, pulling her close to you, make outs, her sitting on your lap, feeling her up, basically sex with your clothes on.
4. Putting all these things together & gradually stair stepping the level of sexuality the girl allow’s to happen in little pieces so she doesn’t resist it because she’s enjoying each individual step more than she’s actually thinking about it. So step 1 would be arousal as chemistry, Step 2 would be over-escalating on her which would transition nicely into step 3; dominating her physically, It’s not required that you put all these together in such a linear fashion, but it helps sometimes, it’s really up to you.
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