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As I was getting started as a PUA, I was constantly worried in the field if I was doing routines, push-pulls, negs, and all the rest correctly. To put it short, I had the wrong mentality.
The sad truth is that if an HB8 were to walk up to an AFC in the street and ask "Do you want to have sex?", the AFC is more than likely to answer "Definitely". The HB8 wouldn't need to perform any small talk, no proving anything, nothing. We are ready to hop into it.
If an AFC walks up to a random HB8 in the street and asks the same, well, I think we agree it would not turn out too well.
Here is where I believe that the 'Predator' must think like the 'Prey'
Women are just as horny as men, HOWEVER, they only want the best. When they sleep with an AFC, its not because thats exactly who they wanted, its because they settled. As a PUA, you should go out with the same mentality. I started going out to sarge telling myself "I want Kate Upton tonight. Thats who I have my sites on. Chances are, the majority of the girls at the club i'm heading to don't even compare. But I want Kate, and If i can't have her, then I hope I can find an HB that isn't too terrible."
Once I developed this mentality, I realized that Opening, Negging, Routines, and all the rest just came naturally. If i'm talking to a girl and I think something about her is tacky, or that shes acting weird or obnoxious, I will call her out on that (With this mentality, it will not be a scripted neg, its truly what you think). Not because I'm trying to put her down, but because I want her to know that at the moment, she is not up to my standards. She should know that if Kate Upton walked into the bar right then, and sent me an IOI, i would leave the current HB8 in the dust immediately. If you really think about it, this is the EXACT SAME THING and HB would do to an AFC. HB's will constantly call out AFC's by their appearance, both Physical and Social. As this happens, the AFC wants the target even more, giving the HB the power to either reject him blatantly, or manipulate him to her liking.
When we walk up to an HB7-10, we basically know that we want to have sex with them. AND the HB also knows that guys will fuck most anything with a pulse, including them. While you are worried that you are not pulling things off correctly, that you are not creating attraction, and you're fretting that you might get rejected, your mentality should be the EXACT OPPOSITE of this. You should be 'worried' that the HB's conversation, posture, and body language and looks are not up to your standards. Then it is in YOUR power to reject them, or to ALLOW them to go home with you that night.
Women are unknowingly incredible sargers. So my advice to you is: Sarge her like she would sarge you. Sarge her like you would sarge yourself.
Another way to think of this, is to picture yourself as the CEO of a company, a big shot, and she is simply 1 of 10 applicants you are reviewing for a new position. YOU are in control. SHE must prove that she is the most worthy of gaining your attention. If she succeeds, you close, and go home happy. If she fails, you have no problem forgetting about her and moving onto the next applicant.
I hope this can help your head game a bit. I know it helped mine. I'm here to improve, so anyones feedback both positive and negative is appreciated.
Happy Sarging
Casper
When the hell would a woman walk up to a man in the street and ask him if he wanted sex? Unless she was a hooker lol. I'm sorry but your attitude is arrogant ie I want her to know that at the moment she is not up to my standards. Whoa! Who are you? Tarzan or something? Then you say she should know that if Kate Upton walked into the bar right then and sent me an IOI, i would leave the current HB8 in the dust immediately. What makes you think that if some guy walked into the bar and sent HER an IOI, you wouldn't see HER for dust? Too arrogant dude. Not many women like a guy who totally adores himself and acts as though he's doing HER a favour man.
CHAT
