The summary of the previous week is: 3 nights out in a row, tons of night game and street game, a lot of fun, hacking VIP areas and exclusive after parties. The guys from RSD (Alex) where in town giving a free tour and a bootcamp so we get to go out with them, or lets say at the same time. Their style is very effective in cold approach: night club, day game etc. But when it comes to groups of friends, getting invited to house parties with a lot of interesting people and pretty girls you might like and probably you see later in the club and cold approach them… Why don´t get them from their inner circle? You´ll have more contacts, friends, opportunities for parties, jobs, adventures… and for this you have to use a different style of game.
Now my game is shaped upon taking the best from the coolest, most smart and most constructive people I believe will make me a better man, a better social person and the best version of me. I build my lifestyle towards having my dreamed "only acting" career and at the same time I have other big interests like entrepreneurship, innovation and so on. Something that defines me also is giving value to friendship and investing my time in life experiences that fulfill. These are elements that connect with others and build your network and your social character.
Now yesterday night, on Sunday I got invited to a friendly dinner with some very talented an open minded entrepreneurs which, among another million things they do, they organize a tribute to Burning Man in the island of Gotland. If you are familiar with the Festival, is all about caring, giving, and friendship. Before I went to the dinner I was reading Christian Hudson´s "The Social Man" newsletter and somewhere there was a remark about this PUAs that are socially retarded and if they go to a friendly dinner with friends don´t know how to behave, are game on like in a club, are seeing very sleazy and embarrass their friends. I´ve been very aware of never do such things because I value extremely such social meetings. So when I was arriving at the place and repeating this mantra in my head "I´m here for a friendly good time and I´m not gonna game any girl…" …well then I realize that a part of my game in this situations is pretty much shaped after Gambler´s "Stealth Attraction" style. Which suits me, my lifestyle and the kind of parties and mingles I go sometimes, which require en exquisite invisibility if you want to get the girl.
So this is what I did. I lowered my intensity to a "among friends" mode…but I play with the body language in stealth. I did looks across the table that were could only be detected by her and very low risk interactions for her, so none in the room realizes what´s going on. I let them know I´m up for it, and after her… but I pay the same attention to the rest of the people, be involved in their conversations and active. Otherwise you´re gonna be seen like the guy that came for that friendly dinner and hit on the girls. Not cool. Make it so it seems it just happened.
So I leave for a quick but we arrange plans for a dance place in the old town.
I arrive late when the girls are all sweaty from dancing, all the sleazy guys are trying to dance too close and I do my thing in these cases…more stealth…hold back, using intensive sexual body language, move away from them and see how bees to the honey come by my side, basically because I´m the only guy not trying to have their attention by doing a silly dance move. Then the first kiss comes. Unfortunately is close to her bed time, the bar is closing and we have to go. So I make out before saying goodbye, again, she was just expecting a hug.
The last girl standing, a dancer with a nice body but a regular not so good looking girl, the one that´s invited me to all these dance session night tells me to follow her to the next. When we arrive… stunner! One of her friends is all outgoing and has no reservations to tell me a couple of direct and nice complements in front of everybody. I keep my laid back, stealth mode on… I just hold it back till I can get it, which I have no idea when that´s going to happen. The bar has just closed when we arrived but the owner of a different place who is parting with them invite us all to his bar, which he´ll open only for us and give us free drinks. Here we are dancing salsa and stuff like that, so you have to follow the rule, dance with different people and don´t be sleazy, try to be up to the art, and use subtle signs when dancing, for example there are caresses you can give that are not usual from dancing, are a bit sexual but not over the top.
So by this time I´m enjoying the moment and escalating slowly while dancing with both the stunner and her friend and switching with other dancers, interacting normally with other people, so I´m giving attention to everyone in different ways and with different intensity. There´s enough trust built now, since every now and then we stop to talk, and it´s a very familiar and intimate environment. We decide to leave the place and there´s no word needed. We are the three of us walking in the same direction, to the same house.

//MyOwnRockstar

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