Long time lurker, first time poster so I just figured I'd throw in my 2 cents on getting your oneitis. So I'm gonna start with last year when I was mostly an AFC and how my game has changed a bit/how I've improved.

Last Summer: So almost the entire time last summer I hooked up with my high school crush, but only when I was drunk (bad idea guys) and this other girl once or twice. I was most definitely more needy back then and it showed in my game. I'm all about about natural game so I didn't use any routines or anything like that. Looking back I could tell that I was clingy, jealous, and a little more outcome dependent. She had just gotten out of a LTR and wasn't looking for anything so I messed up and put too much pressure on her. In the end I went AFC and told her about how I felt and got friendzoned hard. Again guys, never tell a girl how you feel. With all that being said let's fastforward to my first year at uni.

This past fall: Ironically enough I met my ex on the first day of class through my best friend's sister. She seemed like a great girl. Beautiful face, amazing personality, great body. I noticed she was pretty flirty with everybody and that was just the type of girl she was, but I took it as she was interested. She used to make light touches, good eye contact, etc., but was kinda into this other guy at first. Anyways, I just went with my instinct and kino escalated and wound up hooking up with her. The first few weeks at school I hooked up with a couple of different girls too, but I felt something with her. Eventually I started asking her out and I had to wait a while until she was ready, but made her my gf around November. Then I started noticing some bad tendencies and broke up with her about a month ago.

This summer: After I broke up with my ex and having gotten some confidence from gaming at college, I started hanging out with my oneitis again who happens to be in my social circle. From last year I've done a complete 180. I could tell she was flirting with me and jumped on the chance. One day I was in my friend's basement laying on a bed and everyone went upstairs except for me and her. She was about to go up and I went caveman and pulled her onto the bed and kissed her. I started small at first and whenever she left I would kiss her goodbye. Then I asked her on a date and we had a great time, same thing with the second date. Each time I'd get a little further and got a little more action. It all built up to when I moved into my apartment a few days ago and as usual I kept kino escalating and we wound up having sex. Naturally it's a lot easier to deal with LMR and shit tests. She asked me if I would get jealous and if it would ruin our friendship. Oddly enough I felt like I failed those but I confidently said no to both and that seemed enough for her. After that she's started inviting me to hang out. Now she's being the aggressor and asking me to do things! Never give up hope guys, but always be aware of the message you're body is projecting!

TL;DR: Oneitis friendzoned me, I got girlfriend and became more confident/less outcome dependent, conquered oneitis.

Short, simple, great tips: Focus on yourself first, be confident, don't act needy, don't act jealous, kino escalate, and be aggressive, and don't be outcome dependent. My best friend isn't a pua, but I feel like he's given me great advice that we can all apply to outcome independence. He said "Never have high expectations. If you don't reach them, you're going to be disappointed. If you don't have any expectations, anything good that happens is going to make you happy."