okay so I hope I'm posting in the correct forum, my game plan with this hb8 is pretty natural as she is a part of my social circle, I have known her for 2 years or so but we were never friends, never hung out, I never tried to game her or seen her as an option. basically we were just acquaintances.

Last two weeks shes been hanging with one of my closer chick friends and she has been asking about be, I'll take this as an IOI. We have hung out a couple times with the company of other friends so I haven't exactly been able to isolate her, during this two weeks tho i have noticed more then a few IOI's.

I secured her number, she was bugging me to teach her how to drive IOI, I was thinking she was using that as an opportunity to catch me 1 on 1?

Texting back and forth the usual trying to be cocky/funny. I asked her if she wanted to go for a drive... no reply! so I didn't text for a couple days and tried again, she made an excuse.


anyone got some fresh ideas on how to escalate this quickly before the fire burns out and i get stuck in the friends zone? maybe i should just go with direct game ?

Dear emceemack,

Not too sure how txting is cocky mon ami... She has made clear that she wants you by asking via her friend, this is not an IOI it is a definite statement.

Now let this rest for a bit as you may have bored the hell out of her with your texting.

When you will feel it's the right moment you will CALL her and be concise. The call should not last longer than a minute and shall be prepared a minimum previously. You want to surprise her as you want to wait just long enough for her to think you've let her go. Take her on a date.

These are just some ideas, arrange them with your own style, she is probably very young and so you too. Girls are really easy to pick up at this age so if you are around 16/18yo maybe you want to come back here in a few years when things get more hairy.

R_III