Plain and pretty simple, I was supposed to meet a girl for coffee note we are in high school, day before this she says she can't and is ok with another time (she said it like"another time though") what do I say in return?

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I've noticed you sure post a lot about this girl and your "Coffee Date". I've seen at least 4 posts about it haha. Anyways, keep it simple and natural dude. You can't ask us on here for every little detail on what you do with women, there is no hand book or specific rules to follow. To answer your question; simply schedule another time. Tell her when you two are going out for coffee. Remember: She's a human too. She may be busy with school, work, sports, etc. Don't take this as a sign of lost interest.

Glad you noticed haha. I am just over thinking this right now but I am getting a lot of pouts as her being uninterested. It's not a guaranteed thing but either way I just actually want to fully do my best at this date. Thanks though I'm trying all I can and learning all I can

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I can tell you one thing: The more you think about it the more nervous you'll be on the date. I remember when I first started, I liked this girl and I thought about her so much, every time I saw her I felt sick to my stomach.

So ignore all feelings about her until the day comes but also don't overwhelm yourself and over think it of the thought pops into your head?

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Tell her your are going out for coffee without here, should she decide to join you you will be there. If you like her make a point to be there when she is available. You going out for coffee without her shows her you are not dependant on her, and may also make her a tiny bit jealous because you are having fun and she is not. Maybe even spice it up and shoot her a picture of your coffee or something. This would be dependant on her reaction to you going out without her though. If she gets all weird about it, best not to incite the wrath. Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn for sega.

I second this. Just don't think too much about her and get oneitis.

Say "No big deal. I'm free *insert day here.* Let's hang out then "

The words NO BIG DEAL are key. Treat it as if you don't care and that you don't feel as if you were getting blown off. As you game higher caliber women, you will notice that their excuses become a bit more realistic. I have a girl who I'm talking to now that is a stripper at one of the biggest clubs in Chicago and also models. She's a busy fuckin girl. It just is having the timing right where you and her can see each other.

I get that..thank you

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Keep one thing in mind... The Less You Care, The More You Succeed. Schedule another date. If that doesn't work for her, ask another girl out. Remember she's not your girl and she can also be busy dating other dudes. You're in high school so you want to take advantage of all the access of abundant girls in your school and beyond. When you get older, you may be in situations where hot chicks are far in between. This doesn't mean you have a scarcity mentality, it just means it will be a while before you see another girl who sparks your interest.

You: Let's go do something fun this weekend (make sure you have something in mind. You don't want to say, "I don't know... whatever you want to do". Never leave the decision to the girl, but make sure it's something the both of you can enjoy)
Her: Like what?
You: Let go to...
Her: Oh, alright. That sounds good.
You: I'll pick you up Saturday at 8.

If she says she can't or some other time again, find a girl who's more receptive. Don't let a girl string you along. You're young and she's not the only hot thing floating around your school. If she is, go to another school and see the potential there.

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I really like that idea thanks man I already got a secondary to haha

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I have done this. The woman is showing increased interest. In fact I do it quite a bit to her. See how much fun I am having! We had lunch the other day, lots of good talking. Right now, I know she is missing it!

Hey, I think your problem is that you're not seeing enough girls. I'm sure there are tons of other hot girls in high school, why don't you ask a few out?

well of course there is man hahaha and I know i can get to that

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