I have been talking to a girl from my math class for about a week, and I know she enjoys my company so after couple of short instadates i decided to ask her to go out with me. Everything went as planned and she seemed happy when i asked her out. However at the last second she txted me and said that she has something very important to do and she cant come, without even saying sorry. I felt like she is being totatlly honest with me and I just said "Ok then see u later". Now I feel like it was an AFC answer and I cant find what should have i said. Im new to PUA community, so please help.
Thank you

I wouldn't give her any response, and after few houers or even the next day reply with something like "oh jeah sorry i totaly forgot about the date and went out with some friends ( maybe mention female friends ) and was quite happy that you cancelled the date!" So the joke is on her, and she feels like the stupid one. I did that once and it worked out well ( she was bit bitchy because i "dumped" her, but i acted as if nothing happened ) workt out well, i think because i gave her the feeling that she is not the middle of my universum and she started to desire me more then before.

Your reply was fine.

For the future, a good reply for the first flake is "no worries, some other time then," without acting annoyed or anything...

If she flakes twice - lose her number. She just likes the attention.

Tanks fellas. I think that's true I should let her know that I did something better that day. And if she still keeps wanting more attention ill just leave her without any explanation.

Just say something like no prob, some other time then. In other words, you handled it fine. There's no point getting worked up about it as it will not help your cause at all. I wrote about that here: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/ ... l-them-out

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