You'll have to excuse the roughness of this, but it is from the transcripts from my audio course Seduction MMA:
It is the basics of the science of influence based "attraction" vs letting it just happen by luck, or looks status and money based "attraction". Again it's just transcripts, and I can't give away the store, but it is a fairly important portion of stuff guys need to understand science of attraction and arousal wise.
There are about 5 different sexual arousal cycle models and theories in neurology, but they all pretty much agree based on MRI evidence that primarily in women the amygdala, a part of the brain which in a sense interprets stimulus for our mind, isn't as strongly activated by visual images, but is more stimulated by emotions and memory. In a nuttshell women aren't as turned on by looking at a guys abs, as they are by emotions and memories.
We should all know this, it isn't insane theory of some sort it is as I said from MRI machines. The insane theories REALLY are for one example some of the material on evolutionary psychology that comes from guys on survival and replication, which is more closely based on scientology models than current neuroscience. Women DO NOT sit and subconsciously judge "value" survival and replication wise and then once enough threshold has been met, become attracted then aroused, in fact they sit and judge SOCIAL value at a conscious intellectual screening level, and then weigh it against arousal and emotional stimulation to form an overall picture of their attraction to you.
Again the arousal mechanism can be measured in their limbic system on an MRI machine. What does this tell us about sexual arousal then and what we can do to stimulate sexual arousal? Well simply put stop working your abs, again, women aren't men, start being congruent to her memory with someone she would be aroused by, AND emotionally stimulate her sexually.
Aside from that as well, the corpus callosum, pretty much the tissue that separates the left from right brain and sends signals between the two has differences in men and women.
A female corpus callosum in most cases and most research, shows vast differences in how strongly women get signals between the left and right brain. Again we didn't need scientific backing to say that women experience emotion and associative memory stronger than men, and even enjoy experiencing negative emotions fully, rather than repressing them.
Feminists would of course say this is all because of evil men, with the same exact brains, telling women they have to be emotional, yadayadayada. The truth is though that in any culture these neurological differences are there, and significant. Men are crazy for boobies, and women are fuckin nutts. In simplest terms. We wants physical traits, they also want physical traits, but they are also massively susceptible to emotional and memory based influence that we aren't to near the same degree. This is why we don't understand how to do it naturally.
Again emotion and this associative memory are what cause more arousal in women than visual cues alone. If you bore her sexually, and aren't congruent in her memory with a man she would have sex with, and have the body of a greek god, you will probably still strike out in seducing her. To illustrate this two blind dates:
Man A arrives and looks like a male celebrity, cut abs, chiseled face, she becomes instantly mildly sexually aroused, as women do from this level of visual stimulus. Over the course of the date he remains totally neutral emotional stimulation wise and social frame wise. At the end of the night she just isn't attracted, and he doesn't do much to make things happen, they go their separate ways.
Man B arrives and looks like an average guy, she isn't knee jerk put off social frame wise, I mean she wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with him kissing her in public, but she also isn't knee jerk visually aroused or anything. Over the course of the night he gives her deep eye contact, he speaks to her slow and low, almost as if they are already lovers, he tells her things about herself that are spot on, its like he already knows her, he describes how his female friend once fell in love with a man on vacation in Spain, he makes a sexual joke so no one else can hear it, that is just spot on and funny, and he doesnt even realize it gets her thinking about sex, he is a really good listener too, they have really connected, she feels there is something really there and she is working towards it. Ok lets get star trek geek here, her Amygdala is taking in memory of sexual arousal, via his eye contact and sexual tone, and touching of her hand, the memory is, SOMEONE SHE HAS ALREADY FUCKED practically, he is "as if" he is already a lover to her memory, this starts sending arousal signals out which increase sex hormone levels.
All this congruency of association in her memory, coupled with her language processing centers strongly converting the story and the joke in to FELT emotions of love and sex via the difference in the corpus callosum, and it's the same as if you or I were sitting there staring at a bikini models thighs in the sun. This is all verifiable science. Again, learn to influence women with behavior and words, stop working on your abs or the paint job on your car.
Differences in how her limbic system is processing all of this information, and how ours would process visual stimulation are fairly reversed. The difference in the corpus callosum, allows her amygdala to send out signals via stored associated memory and emotional stimulation that end up in the nucleus accumbens, the pleasure center of the brain. This is how choice making is done, this is what "motivation" and "attraction" are at a neurological level. Combined with the fact that this new interaction is stressful on some levels, her body has started to release what are called Glucocorticoids as a reaction. These prime the nucleus accumbens to receive and be sensitive to dopamine, the main neurotrasmitter responsible for feeling good and having desires.
What I will show you in a bit is how to do this and then how to short circuit her good sense and social frame so she acts on it instead of fighting it intellectually.
Anyway, like I said I can't give away the store, but that is the basics of stuff I have read in to gender differences wise in studies and research, that have made sense in field anyway. Some theory is I think simply wrong, because it doesn't match up. The emotional memory decision making processes, and dopamine priming does however match up to field experience, so I think it is fairly spot on.
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