Hey everybody hope the sarging is going well.

I created a post a few months a ago about this girl (October November time) about how she is super flirty and gives me all of these signals but she already has a FWB.

Well same girl this time. The FWB I guess isnt with her anymore because she has told me and her roommates in conversation that she hasnt had sex in a long time but that's beside the point.

This past saturday was 420 and we all got invited out to a party at her roommates boyfriend's house. All who went from our group was me, her (J), and her 2 roommates. The night was great I wasnt focusing much on J because a few months ago I decided that being hung up on her was stupid especially after she told me I was in the friend zone. As the night went on I went out, socialized but I always found her fairly close. Not beside me but always within talking and eye contact distance. No big deal. Right?

I gave her my drink to hold onto as I went to the washroom since there were drugs around and I didnt want anything yo to happen to it. I went to the washroom but had to wait because someone else was in there. Once they left I went in and did what I had to do and left. Not much before I left I heard Js voice checking if I was ok since I was gone a long time. I opened to door to see her sitting at the top of the stairs holding both her drink and mine so I sat beside her. We talked for a while, just like how the party was and she said she was a little drunk but I definitly saw her worse. Her other roommate came up and sat on the other side of me and she was completely wasted. So I put my arms around both of them for one, to hold her roommate up and 2 just to joke with the guys that I was the ladies man.

Next thing I know J leans over and kisses me on the cheek. Just straight up no reason from my point of view. This really threw me off guard but I kept my cool and didnt over react...I guess I under reactedbecause I jist turned and smiled at her.

I know she was drunk but shes been way worse before and we have been in very very close situations before and she never did anything like this.

Should I talk to her about it? Or ignore it and blame it on the alcohol? Should I try and escalate? Or follow my initial instinct and try not to fall for her?

I just need a new perspective from you guys on this because I cant think straight about it.

Let me know what you think

Seems like you passed up a ménage à trois situation. You could have looked at her in the eye and kissed her on the lips back. slow at first and maybe more aggressively after, but not forgetting about her room mate, who im assuming was there when you got kissed. She kissed you and made the first move, that is the ultimate "in."

You coulda kissed them both and got them to kiss each other and take it from there. This will be a story where you are forver like, "WHY DIDN'T I ********" in this case the asterisks are " KISS HER BACK"

Talk to her about it in person after chillign a bit, alone. Then bring it up and tell her you owe her a kiss, then move in for a kiss, and kiss her. That's the romantic novelistic shit women love. It doesn't have to make sense, as long as there is emotion involved. She will eat it up.

Sounds like a good plan but I have no idea when I will implement it. Shes studying for her exams constantly now and after her last one she will be moving back home which is way far away from me. She wont be back until September. Well Im having them all down for a party in May but I dont know when I would be able to isolate her.

Boom, May it is. Don't fret if things don't workout with her either. No one asks how many girls you HAVEN'T been with.