Hey whatsup, first post but active lurker.

Some background, my game is alright, definitely not airtight and I have many things to learn.

Now I met this girl last night at a bar, she kept making eye contact with me and I was with her, eventually she called me over, we joked around for a bit and she kept saying how cute/sexy I was then we started making out for a while (10 minutes off and on probably). I had to meet some friends that were up and she had to goto the next bar as well so we got numbers and went our ways, we were split the rest of the night, however, some drunk texting occured and she invited me over at 2:30am (I'm assuming she was shit faced at that point).

Now dismorning, I texted her
"Make it home last night?

No response,
I want to send another text as I would like to f-close this girl, or at least get some practice with texting. She was pretty cute and all. Now I am not over-invested, I'm texting other girls as well, this will be good for practice and what not.

I am wondering if I should send another text, maybe teasing about being shy or something? I don't want to creep her, but I would like to get some sort of response.

Any words?

Wait 4 days.

Then text her-what color thong are you wearing? And by that I mean happy Friday


Don't act concerned about her well being even if you are. That its not a turn on. Don't ever ask questions unless they are sexual in nature or arranging a get together.

Click my links below and see how different my text game is compared to yours. For over 6 weeks I had a girl sexually dying to hook up with me. I never asked her shit unless it was sexual. If she asked me anything, I never gave a serious reply ever. Its possible, just follow those few rules even if you think they don't make sense.

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Thats not too bad of advice. Do you think I passed the opportunity for that? Should I just wait for the weekend and maybe she will blow me up again, or say, "Are you out"


I think that is my best play at the moment

Follow exactly what is in the box above!!

Don't contact her period unless she contacts you. You are the prize not her. It's AFC to text without a freezeout after her no reply. Wait until Friday and send that text. That's what I would do. If you do something else you'll probably fuck it up. Just saying.

On Friday if she responds, don't ask her ?s unless sexual and always speak open ended.
Very easy to get a girl aroused through text which will make her want to fuck you before even dating. Quit acting AFC and just ignore her until Friday.

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normally I would say slipknot is out of his mind, but the lay report he posted earlier was epic. Props, bro.

Word, awesome advice guys, you're right.

This is a similar but different situation with a different girl the following day:

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Is the advice the same? Or should I approach it differently because she is older? I went further with her, as in BJ and finger blastin.

Slipknot knows exactly what he is talking about, don't know him, but reading his response revels that.

You had her interested enough to make out with her (is another question why you didn't have sex with her). Your follow up message was BORRRRRIIINNNGGG.

She may have thought, that's caring of him, when what you want her to think is: I'm wet.

Follow Slipknot's advice or you could text things like:
How are you?
or Am out at the ice cream parlor, want to join?
or How is your mother?
etc. all guaranteed to get you...wait for it...no response.

In no way am I implying that I know what I'm talking about, since I've gotten into the game just recently. But, seeing this topic reminds of reading Mystery Method and the section about "Buyer's Remorse". To put it bluntly maybe you escalated too fast before building enough attraction or comfort.

So essentially Mystery states, that you should not escalate her arousal into foreplay unless you intend to f-close her at that point. If you don't have the opportunity to f-close, then don't build her hopes up, because she will regret having made herself vulnerable to you for no reason then next day.

Interesting topic, let me know what happens / has happened with all the advice given to you.

What Mystery says is not correct, IMO. I escalated a girl into foreplay and then cut the evening. Two days later she is trying to figure out how to get me to her house. There is no buyer's remorse, just a girl who is attracted.
This is a good insight, though.

Don't even initiate contact to begin with.

Go K-close ten other women and you will realize how special it isn't.

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Thanks my friend, I'll keep that in mind when im in the field!