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| cbplayer | PostPosted: Tue Dec 25, 2012 8:42 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 14, 2012 4:48 am Posts: 19 Location: USA | | Should I abort?
So basically I met this girl at my university. We had nice convos when we met.
She always seemed excited to see me.
I noticed a few IOI's. She kept eye contact. Her pupils dilate around me. She introduced me to friends and often ask me questions. Anytime we hung out, she'd ask me what I'm gonna do later. like, " are you just gonna chill here?" or " are you leaving now?" She'd also laugh at most of the things i say. Even things I dont consider funny lol.
Her friends claim she's a bad texter. So, via text I would flirt with her and she'd normally flirt back. She's generally responsive although sometimes she takes an entire day to reply and every once in a while she may not reply.
She's busy and usually gets back to me so i didnt make a big deal when she didnt reply
So, one day, we have lunch together and her friends happened to be there, idk if this is good or bad.
Anyways i asked about any parties going on and she mentioned one and she was unsure if she's going. Later i told her to go to the party with me. She said she still wasn't sure if she's going. i went with my buddies. I found out later that she went but she didnt tell me...
Then a few weeks later, after some flirting i told her to go shopping with me and help me pick out a gift for my aunt. She never replied.
At that point i didnt know if I should think she declined my invite or forgot to get back to me, since she's a bad texter.
I saw her later on and she acted normal around me. We talked for a bit. She did ask me questions, to get to know me a little better. Idk at this point, should I abort? Do you think she's not interested? _________________ No problem holmes!
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| Mr. Marville | PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 12:02 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Oct 17, 2012 1:56 pm Posts: 658 | | she is definitely one of those 'talk the talk but dont walk the walk' persons.
like 99% of women nowadays.
why abort? just hit on her when she's there, and dont invest extra time in her, meanwhile throw out your net for other girls.
go more intense on your flirting. hit on her harder. come unto her more strongly. 10% chance you will get her but its time to move into the "im the prize here, and if you dont care about me, i have no reason to waste my time on you" mindset.
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| iamjstar | PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 12:58 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Aug 03, 2012 2:59 am Posts: 29 ICQ: 2560 AOL: 271 | | I don't really see any negative info here. Since she's a bad texter it's all pretty natural. I'm not going to lie, I'm more of a face to face person myself. I don't reply and check phones/facebook etc. Honestly though, just close on her. No matter what happens, move it forward. I suggest meeting up. _________________ Life is too short to be anything but happy; what you do today is extremely important - you're trading a whole day of your life for it.
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