Understanding the Science of Attraction

Attraction Isn't a Choice (1)
Attraction is how much we’re emotionally drawn to someone/something. We cannot help but feel this desire because it's not a logical choice that we make. attraction is an EMOTION. And emotions are difficult to control. We cannot simply decide to stop liking something.

Many Don’t Understand the WHY of Attraction (2)
A lot of attraction happens subconsciously.Although we may claim to understand some parts of why we’re attracted, often times there are many elements that drive our attraction that we aren’t even aware of. For example; we may desire the validation of having a hot girl as a girlfriend or desire to compensate our lack of girl-getting success in high school.

Extreme Potential of Attraction (3)
Attraction can be so powerful that we can become addicted to thing we are attracted to even if that thing is lethal to our lives. Like cocaine. This drive can be so powerful that it can lead us to giving up everything in our lives just to have more of it. It can lead us to become blind to the shortcomings of what we are attracted to. Most men however aren’t that attractive LOL. But there have been exceptions in history. Men like Jim Jones, David Koresh, Justin Beiber…

Attraction is a Science (4)
Science is the systemized knowledge of the world obtained through study. Just like in science one can through research and learning come to understand the principles of that specific area of science, so too with attraction. Just like in science applying the principles, (with the use of guidelines and tactics) one can achieve spectacular results such as the laptop, so too with attraction.

Attraction Skills is an Art (5)
Art is a superior skill that one can learn through study and practice. Just like in art with training one improves one’s skills so too with the Skills of Attraction.

Attraction is Power (6)
Power is one’s ability to accomplish. Becoming an irresistible, rockstar man means that you can seduce most women in the world. You can befriend anyone, anytime and anywhere. Being able to hook people up can make you the most prized friend in many social circles. You’ll have friends who will do anything for you. By having that much power you’ll become a dangerous force to be reckoned with.

The Source of Attraction is Pleasure (7)
Perhaps the strongest driving force within us is our desire for pleasure. We all want to “feel good.” If your presence makes other people feel good they will want to be with you. This is the source of attraction. Technically speaking if you can make people feel so good around you that they feel a similar high as cocaine then you can make them become addicted to being with you. Caveat: You want to give pleasure in a way that doesn’t lower your value.

The Enemy of Attraction is Real Pain (8)
Human beings are designed to avoid feelings of pain or unpleasant experiences. The enemy of attraction is making other people “feel bad” when they are with you. Caveat: Often times, however, it is within your best interest to make the target feel temporary bad (short term loss) for a long term gain (these are called Cuts). Ironically by showing that you’re not interested in the other person (that can be a bit painful) you are giving them more pleasure at the end of the day because they know they’re spending time with a high-status person.
(More on this Later).

Many Elements Contribute to Attraction (9)
Imagine having the best 5 star meal in the world. There’s no one thing that makes it an evening you’ll never forget. It’s many, many different elements that work together to create a masterpiece. Similarly when it comes to become an extremely attractive man you will have to integrate various attractive qualities into your personality.

GUIDELINE: The Base Rule
Give Maximum Pleasure While Still Being a Challenge.


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This is nice stuff, man, I actually got to clear up my mind a little with this. Thanks. p;