So I'm 18, I'm around 143Ib and about 5'10. I've had 3 girlfriends in my life. I've been out of high school for like half a year, work at a restraunt, taking a break from school, haven't dated or spit much game in a while.

Now there's this girl... I shouldn't even be fucking with her because she's like 16, but this girl is like a straight 10. She's not skinny, and she's not fat. She is like the perfect amount of thickness. And she has a giant ass that's not too big for her but it's just amazing! She's Italian also so she has like a sexy ass tan. She smokes occasionally and drinks every weekend. One of my problems is, she has a shit ton of guys going for her, so I'm not going to stand out if I don't have amazing game and stand out from the rest. This girl is hot, and she knows it! She literally has guys at her fingertips who will do anything for her (Which I was headed that way.) She sucks at texting back a lot and is cool but seems like a complete bitch sometimes.

I may have already lost my chance with this chick though. Couple days ago I decided to "Be a man" and I told her that she was extremely cool and attractive and that I liked her and she kinda turned me down. Wasn't over her ex girlfriend (Yeah, you read it right. I guess she's bi!) and she thought we should just be friends, for now at least! We've been talking for like 3 weeks so that's pretty much where I'm at now. I don't know why I'm even trying for this girl, but I'm like drawn to her. Never wanted a girl this much in my life! I need help with game and tactics. I'm so close to getting shut down, I gotta get myself out and on top!

just have to realize there is no magic pill or thing to say or thing to do that will magically give you confidence and a solid game

that all comes from experience with meeting girls and trying to sleep with them, and that's girls with an ''S''

next time start out with being more honest about why you are talking to the girl, start with that instead of finishing with that, pull back from this girl, meet and try to date other girls and get over your approach anxiety, learn to see passed the one girl and realize you are surrounded by lots of girls every day and she is just another girl of many, learn to get good with all women and you will get good at getting the specific woman

Well if I was u I'd move on. She's not ur love, there are definantly other gurls out there. But if u think she's worth it here's what I'd do. Stop talking to her and distract itself from her for a few months, then start talking to her again and act like a whole new person. Be really calm and controlled (this shows confidence) and just be an alpha male. When you come back to her come back as the alpha male. Women like alpha makes instinctively. When we were cavemen women instinctively chose alpha males cuz they can fight and protect. They take care of the close people around them. And everyone is on there side for the most part.

Yeah, alright sweet! Thanks!

If she's a 10 and she knows it, I suggest just fucking around (joking/goofing around) and just move towards the close. She's a 10 so naturally you know that she has a lot of guys who take her really seriously when they try to tell her they like her, try to pick her up etc. In reality, in order to stand out you need to just stop taking her so seriously and just fuck around.

The reverse is also true:
7s will generally react poorly to a light, fun vibes with lots of jokes. They will want to be taken seriously like 10s and ultimately want to be treated the way 10s are usually treated.

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No, you decided to be an AFC, and she shut you the fuck down for it. Please promise me that you will never say this again to any hot girl that you like. If you want to comment on her hotness, say something like "I really like how your hair looks today." But don't ever tell her she is hot!

Now she's probably getting that plump Italian ass slammed by some college guy who knows not to tell her she's hot and just treats her like an average girl.

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This man is accurate as hell... although hope your wrong on that college guy thing considering shes 16 hahaha. Should have "been a man" and called her out on acting like a bitch or stuck up.

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

Yeah, I look back now and it seems really stupid now.. thanks guys!