Has this happened to you before?

I was going out to pickup women tonight (no luck I tell you, went to places that weren't crowded enough or too noisy, and went on my own too). I went to this club that was way too loud to talk to anyone. Since the cover was 10 bucks I figured I'd stay there and dance, have fun. Lo and behold, an HB7 blonde girl grabs me on the dancefloor while I was dancing, she says, "wanna dance with me?" then grabs me and dances.

For a guy who recently been out of a 4 year relationship and slowly getting back in the game, it really threw me off guard! What surprised me a bit was that she wasn't even drunk. + she had a birthday thingy like those pageants. I usually go forward with gaming, as I'm a texbook type of guy, but I just couldn't believe that she was the one who picked me up lol. I am a fairly attractive guy but I'm no Brad Pitt.

Any stories from you guys? Girls picking you up?

Yes. And better. Mind blowing stuff.

There are party girls out there. They hunt down the alpha party leaders and go for the gold. If you can be that guy, then the girls will find you. Maybe you got lucky with your looks, location and vibe. But you should capitalize on that and put yourself in more situations where that can happen.

As far as I'm concerned that's the only real way to do it. I am trying to only get girls that go after me. In order for them to find me I have to perform or lead events.

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I was in there, with my leather jacket and La style thin tie, going there to dance, not giving a fuck, so that might have had to do with it. I go to the gym a lot (5 out of 7) and eat very healthy, cuts down the fat percentage on me.

I'm guessing that all these things were accumulated factors as to why she grabbed me to dance. It still caught me off guard, but I'm one of those guys that, everytime I go out, something out of the ordinary happens, and for the better. The other night a girl bought me a drink out of the blue, so that was also a first.

You're sure lucky that night man.

If men like us want to learn and be good at pick up, girls do the same.

It's a good way to start- not to mention after LTR.

It's a positive way to be back on your game!

Just recently was at a clothing store. Saw this smokin hot brunette whose boyfriend I noticed was in the dressing room. I was trying to sneak peaks at her since she was so hot (and my girl was there too!) I went to the other corner of the store in the men's section, and all of a sudden I hear "How much is 30% off of $50?" I looked over and it was the girl standing right there and just started talking to me out of the blue. I replied, "You just randomly ask strangers math questions or what?" She laughed and said something else. Then I said, "Like the men's clothing do you?" basically trying to get her to tell me why she was there.S he then said she was with her boyfriend shopping, which I already knew.

It was probably innocent enough, but when I was talking to her I definitely felt in set. Which was weird considering she opened me and both of our significant others were in the store too, possibly watching us!

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She probably loved every minute of it.

Girls love the attention of other men especially when their boyfriends are around.

Feeds the ego..

Then yesterday I got opened by a tranny who works at the cafeteria. He/she has opened me before, so technically it wasnt' a true opening, but anyway he/she stopped what he/she was doing and walked around the counter and came right up to me and was like "How have you been?" All friendly like.

It was so funny because he/she was using all these false disqualifiers straight up pua style. He/she was like "I spent the holidays with my ex, but I also have a boyfriend who I'm going to be moving with next month." I just kind of stood there taking it all in. I didn't really know a politically correct way to say I'm not into dudes so I just took my food and was like "I have to go."

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So she asked you to dance. Did you have sex with her that night? Or at the very least, arrange plans for later?

I always view girls dancing as frame control. They do it to show their dominance. But also, as a way of presenting themselves. If you didnt escalate that shit from there, you aint done shit.

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It will happen from time to time.

However, do not count on these to not approach other women.

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Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Oh I didn't do anything with her. Maybe in a year when I gain more experience in the field, I will have an easier time capitalizing on opportunities. I just need to get out there more.

In that case I hope you realize this wasn't a big deal.

Best case scenario, you were her handsome dance
Partner for the night. Worst case scenario, you were plaything/scratching post till she got tired of you

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It was a big deal to me! Whatever I was to her, I liked it!

Guys, you want stories about girls asking guys to dance ... you've come to the right man.

Now guys, I'm talking real dancing not just standing on the dance floor shaking your stuff. I'm a ballroom dancer, like they do on Dancing With The Stars, only I do it the right way. Anyway .... Went out the other night to go dancing. There's this singles dance here in my city I hadn't been to in years, so I went. Long story short. I asked 3 women to dance and suddenly I have women comming up to me asking me to dance. I think there were 6 or 8 that out of the blue came asking for a dance. Suddenly I didn't need to worry about dancing I had my choice of almost any woman in the place. Admittedly most of these women I didn't want to do anything but dance with, but I danced with anyone that wanted to dance with me. Best social proof there is!! Best opener too ... "Would you like to dance", you're not asking for a big commitment from her just a few minutes of her time. Most women won't refuse you, the want to dance. And talk about kino ..... I could touch any lady anywhere I wanted to and they wouldn't object, they loved it, had the time of their lives.

Guys, learn to dance, take some lessons, get good at it, women will fall all over you wanting to dance with you. The rest is up to you to figure out.

The beginning of this post^^^^ made me SKIP RIGHT OVER IT LOL