Note: This is the same girl from my first post: "
She texted me: Tell me thats not the way you get the ladies."
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No dude ever wants to see his target laughing, vibing, and having a great time
with some other dude. So you guys probably heard the same story before, only it happened to a different chump, some girl, and some other dude who's just naturally better than the chump.
So I bump into the same girl from before in my college dorm lobby. I was just about to leave the building while she was just about to enter. We both live in the same building and we have a brief history with each other since September. We ate out at this sushi place, watched "Drive" (we're both Ryan Gosling fans lol), and I'm thinking,
"Fuck yeah! We're having a good time! Now, how should I take this a step further so as to not
get friend-zoned?"
In my chemistry class, I get a text from her: "Are you in the dining hall?" She rarely texts first, as
I'm the one who usually initiates the conversation. Are guys always the ones who start the conversation with the girl first?
I responded to her text, saying that I'm still in class and plan to go to the dining hall in a few minutes. No response. Pffft, whatever. I always try to keep the texts at a 1:2 ratio, so I call her, and she didn't pick up. (I was planning on that.) Here's the conversation:
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Her: Im on the bus breh. Whats up?
Me: Bus, schmus! Let's eat!:D
Her: Ah i already got dinner plans. Yo. I swear i saw your doppleganger today at the dining hall. I was almost gonna go up to him and be like "hey!" but then
Her: i realized it wasnt you so i casually kept on walking lol
Me: Yooo I saw your doppleganger at the dining hall last week was good, son!?!? lol
So she had dinner plans. Whatever, I'll just call some other bitch in the rotation. Bitches love rotations. But no dice; I end up going to the dining hall alone. And here's the
juiciest part of the story:
I sit at a table, and just a few tables ahead of me was the girl.....and the dude. I
know the dude, as a matter of fact, and he goes to the same Japanese class with the girl! To make matters worse: he
also dorms in the
same fucking building!!! He's on the first floor, she's on the second, and I'm on the fourth. I guess it takes too much effort for her to drop by my room and say hi.
So they're talking to each other, and the girl is showing IOI's to him. They're obviously having a good time - I can hear them laughing, telling stories, and talking to each other in Japanese. I'm at an obvious disadvantage here because they get to see each other every week, and every time I try to make plans with the girl, SHE. CAN'T. COME. She also tells me from time to time how she "crashes over his place for the night." Yeah, we all know what
that means. I guess she really does have this "other slice of cake."
I didn't intrude on their interaction. That might risk me DLV by going to
their table rather than the other way around, thus conveying neediness and fulfilling the role of third-wheel (not gonna happen!!). I barely touched my food and split the dining hall. I'm got so mad at myself for letting things get this far between them. I've read remedies on how to destroy one-itis: just
game and
game as much as you can until the feeling leaves you, but you can spend months after months reading on how to get rid of one-itis, and once it finally happens to you, your mind just goes.....blank.
I really did have feelings for the girl, though. I thought we really had a good thing going, but I guess that in the end, there's always someone else who's Flame just shines hotter and brighter than yours...
What should I do, guys? Should I confront her to see if she's taken (of course, I'll practice the Ghost)? Do I just keep on gaming? My gaming isn't even that solid yet; I never once in my life got an F-close, and I'm still a fucking virgin. Hell, even my
little brother beat me to the spot!!
I know things shouldn't be a big deal, but guys, please help me.
CHAT
