There's this girl that i really like that iv'e known since i was about 4. We're both adolesence now and she lives down the street from me. The problem is i feel like i'd be able to get her if she didn't know how i was back then the AFC therapist that helps girls with there feelings and shit. But iv'e told her i liked her and shit and i maintain confidence i don't get scared/nervous talking to girls anymore but here's the thing i have this tendency to always have a sexual vibe iv'e done it for so long with multiple HB 8 and HB 9's that i know after a while it gets old to them so i try to resist that nature. I remember talking to her on Facebook once but this was a while back i asked her "If i kissed you what would you do" and she said she would cry..(Not tears of joy lmao) But one of her friends that's my friend told me that she said last night after we all hung out at this Fall Festival that she said i was cute and all but she woulden't date me cause we wouldn't get to see eachother (She lives at her moms house now but comes to her dads on the weekends and stuff) idgaf though i just want her. But i know there's more to that. She dated one of my friends Kris that iv'e known for about 3 years now and he lives 3 houses down from my house but that didn't stop her. And she is obsessed with him and he has a girlfriend and is still flirting with her and shit i swear to you my friend Kris has never heard of PUA or anything and he is the best pickup artist i have ever seen like this guy was born with a natural game talent. I envy the dude when i try to compete with that girl sometimes even though i know i shoulden't. But i try my best to be Alpha but i have this sense that getting out of the friend zone and shit has to do with sexual escalation but sometimes girls give you that "Hes creepy" thing cause your sexual you know? So i'm trying to stop all that shit. Any advice?

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well if shes emotionaly into another man theres really not much that can be done. if i was you id just move on, but i know how people hate hearing that so ill tell you this. just be alpha over him, be more alpha than he is. she thinks your cute, and obviously she was being legit because she said it to her friend, not you. take it away from there. just keep being more alpha than kris is and gradually her feelings for you will grow, and act kinda like you dont really like her anymore. you can be more alpha than this guy, i promise. you just have to try. oh, and definitely don't be sexual around her yet, its not time.

learn to get good with women in general, once you are, execute your game

Never focus on one woman go find others and when she see you having fun and with other girls you may have an opening in the future you have to think long term and focus on meeting other beautiful girls you have a shot with. Build up you social circle go out and have fun and invite her and her boyfriend out and add them to you circle be cool with him. If they do break up you will already be on close good terms by being close friends most girls don't stay single for long so you will have to play it cool but act decisively. Or you might find somebody better and lose interest happens to me all the time there's just to many singles out there and even the ones that do get married seem to get divorced and recycled back into the game. Its defiantly a good time for the very few PUA's that are still active.

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Don't focus on "one" girl man.

You're still young. Widen your radar!

Socialize and be confident with people you are with.

You'll eventually be good at your game!

Learn as much skill as you can and when you think you're ready- Take your plunge!

Nah, not a very good relationship in general.

If it's hurting your self-esteem in some level (her being emotionally attached with other man), then leave man.

Expand your social circle- a lot of girls out there.