I wrote down here my first experience setting my mind to the goal of getting female dance partners at a rave and what I learned from it. It was a great experience and despite there being a lack of quality women at this venue (even just physically), I still managed to figure out how to get to the hotties despite the chaos in the crowd. Here is what I did and where I hit my sticking points.


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I was just at a rave tonight and as anyone who goes to these knows - the crowd is very densely packed.

I literally did not have any form of game inside of these before tonight. I figured out a system though that worked pretty damn well for me by the end of the night. Here it is so far:

I get in virtually the very center of the rave. Midway in depth and in the center of the stage. I found that this is area has the best abundance of women.

I calibrate myself to the crowd and scan around the crowd. If I see a girl I like, we will hopefully have cought eyecontact during this process and I will give her a good vibe signal that I am her guy. From here I can either gesture for her to come up to me, grab her hand and guide her over if she is close enough, or (if she did not give me a submit vibe) focus my attention back on the stage and calibrate myself to the crowd again for another process.

Once I start dancing with her I calibrate myself to her of course so we are in rhythm. I usually grab her hands at this point or her hips depending on what is going on in the song. I also make sure that every guy around me knows this is my girl too. This I have found is very important as guys will very indirectly fight me for girls. Its all about positioning here and maintaining your position behind them whether you and her have "connected" with your vibe and dancing or what.

A lot of times I am trying to figure out the right time to "go in" so to speak while im behind the girl and she's not really my dancing partner yet so to speak and I will notice other guys trying to subtly push my out. My mindset during this is "get the fuck away from me and this girl". I will sub communicate "no way" to them via the positioning of my hands and feet relative to her. This by itself worked well enough for any time gaps I experience. The goal is to not have these time gaps though as once im already dancing with the girl people actually will give me a sign of respect so to speak by giving me more room to dance with my girl. I noticed that I may be crammed initially but right when I get going with a girl I get space really quick.

My escalation methods I would completely cater to whatever I was feeling at the moment here based on our vibes. I liked to run my hands across their arms and hug their body while dancing in various ways. I am pretty good at the initial rapport, very good at the comfort once we get going, and very lacking in the sexual escalation. This is where I need work on.