I would like to start by saying that I'm only looking for responses from people who have experienced similar situations, I do not care about hypothetical responses as I can do that.

I've been flirting on and off with this girl for a while now (everytime we saw each other we would get off and slowly the attraction increased). Then last time I saw her we swapped numbers and have been steadily chatting and I'm meeting up with her when i go back to uni, so in a lot of ways its all going well.

However, usually, i tend to dominate conversation, I am confident, easy to speak to, can make the girl laugh, etc... However this girl is a full on dominant alpha female, she loves to control the conversation, is confident, says what she wants, doesn't care, it's a really attractive trait, and one which is very rare.

So to get to my question, should I make the effort to frame control and be the alpha or simply let her speak her mind and frame control. I know a lot of people are going to immediately jump in and say that I need to be the one controlling whats going on, but its incredibly clear that this girl is attracted to me and she keeps telling me she wants to meet up. Because of this I'm tempted to simply leave it as is and not disturb the balance, as at least for the moment I'm interested in nothing more that a couple of lays. If it ever became more than that I would want to step in and be more dominant but I'm not sure if it's worth it for what i want.

As I said ideally I want to hear from people who have been with very alpha girls and would like to hear what you did, how she reacted, and what the overall outcome was.

Cheers.

What is it you want to do? Fuck her, or are you going for more than that?

If you're thinking more long term, then enjoy the fruits of a 50-50 relationship. If you want to fuck her, then I would dominate the conversation, but pay VERY close attention to what she says when she does. It will tell you where to lead her, and then you're in by leading her where she wanted to take conversation. She'll think you're reading her mind, which you can do to some extent if she is good a good communicator.

I've gone out with plenty of girls like this. Here's my 2 cents

1. By giving up control you take control. Let her control the conversation. This will help you stay loose and react only when you want to. In fact, being "too much" into the conversation can get you into the friends' zone.

2. Stay aloof, be a challenge! If she wants to do all the talking, then let her. Most girls are pretty chatty once they open up to you. Tease her, push her away, this will spark interest.

3. She's cracked open now.. Sit back and enjoy the moments with her

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I've been in this situation a few times and found the best balance is:

1) Be alpha passively by not being emotionaly affected by her alphaness: as if to say that you like her confidence but if something serious happened you would take charge straight away IF she needed to be protected.

2) Be alpha in the bedroom, you need an alpha frame to create sexual attraction. Women are not attracted to sexually beta males unless they have some form of psychological issues.