I always see you need to kind of play hard to get. So what does that mean really? If she texts me am I not supposed to respond but then she loses interest. Am I always supposed to be busy but then we never go out. You see what I mean is there supposed to be a medium or what?

You play whatever you want to play. You can be forward or you can be hard to get. It doesn't matter as long as you stay congruent. If you change yourself for her then she will be disinterested. It is not about playing hard to get.

Playing hard to get works nicely if you are a very social guy and many people want your attention and you are picky about the people you hang out with and she has to earn your attention.

Earning your attention being the main point here. Make her invest more. Qualify her on things, things you value. For example can she cook? Ask her. If she can tell her your favorite dish and she can only hang out with you if she can cook that. Be playful.

Easiest way to play hard to get:

Fill your life up with a lot of great activities that you love to do.

That way, whenever you're talking to a girl you have a ton of cool stories to share, as well as don't have a lot of time available for her.

You're "naturally" coming off as playing hard to get simply because your lifestyle reflects who you are.

Playing hard to get,,,

Make her invest more effort and time in you then you do in her. It's easy just show you arent desperate for her.

Be willing to lose the girl and let her know that [dont say it..]

NEG her
Statements of disinterest
Watch your proximity
let HER come to YOU

stuff like that, ah and balance it out show ioi's and iod's. Go to her occasionally just balance stuff out

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Don't chase her. If she makes an attempt to meet up with you, tell her you can't because you are busy (but only the first time or two). Talk to her about doing things that both of you would enjoy, but don't actually invite her or plan the date. She'll either play into your game and start chasing you, or she'll think you don't like her and she'll back off. But if she backs off, then you just contact her again to show you are interested, thus giving her mixed signals.

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Tr@veler hit the nail on the head. You dont need to play hard to get. You can chase her and get her. Infact, the hottest girls I've got, I've chased. But when you are chasing a girl, you are doing so from a place of being an awesome, funny, confident guy. And being cool if she isn't interested in being chased by you.

The only way I really play hard to get is through what Czech. said. I'm often busy, as I do a lot of stuff. I see friends, do sports, go to parties, and am generally busy. So sometimes I will naturally not answer a text for a few hours, and won't always be free to meet her. If you fill your life up with stuff you find fun, and don't rearrange your schedule for a girl without good reason, then you'll be golden. So don't worry about playing hard to get. Instead, just worry about being the type of guy she always wanted to hook up with.

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This is exactly the old-school PUA stuff you DON'T want to do.
I may steal that whenever I update my book. :)

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What makes this "old school"???

Has it proven not to be effective, or have to many girls caught on with years of guys going out to sarge after reading The Game or doing Real Social Dynamics, etc..

I think it still has some validity, but moreover, novel techniques have proven to be more effective.

It's kind of like the old school workout routines. You could do windmills and aerobics all day long. But if you do the P90X, you'll get ripped in no time. Basically, the new shit is better.

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Not oldschool.. Still works like a charm. We all know it has been aroind for long but that doesnt mean you dont want to use it, lol