Hey I'm not sure if this is the right section, but I'm headed off to a midsized college where there is a club right next to campus where a lot of kids go and the school is pretty greek life oriented, and I wanted to know if anyone had basic tips for clubbing and then general college parties. I've never been to a nightclub before, but I've been to some small-ish college parties (like 20-30 people) and had fun. I didn't want to seem out of place at the nightclub though, so does anyone have any tips on how to act/how to pick up HBs? Do you ask/talk to her before you start grinding or go right in on it?

You need to read more posts brotha but basically smile a shitload and despite what your mother told you, it's ok to talk to strangers lol! Also don't just bounce from female to female, it makes you look desperate. The rest is up to you, as for the grinding... In my experience, just hopping on some chick sometimes works but can fail, but then again if you don't give a shit about any single woman in particular you really can't fail. Have fun and the ladies will follow:) Happy Sarging!

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Thanks, any idea on which posts to read? I've searched and found some, but anything on more of the college game would be a great read.

College game is so easy it's ridiculous; I'm guessing you're a thinker as it appears you are over-analyzing this. Get fucked up and have fun, don't think about the consequences and the ladies will notice and flock to you. Being a dick helps but it's a tricky game to play but deadly when done right(rule of thumb is he hotter the girl, the more you should make it look like you don't want her, she'll start qualifying herself to you I swear) As for literature, just read any and everything that catches your eye, look for consistencies and try things. There will be anxiety but harnessing the fear and doing it anyway is a fucking rush I can't get enough of.

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Ya I overanalyze almost everything haha

I used to do the same, weed helps to escape your own brain lol. When it comes to females tho, remove logic from the equation. Women are by no means logical. Remember, have fun for you and the rest will fall in line. Keep me posted on your success/failures, and don't get discouraged by rejection because it happens to the best of us. 3.5 billion women in this world, no reason to get all hung up on one.

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Thanks man. I'm on a sports team and with drug tests and wanting to do well to stay on the varsity team I doubt I'll be doing drugs. But I guess I'll try and remove logic and just mind myself and have fun (I think thats what you mean). I guess from being sheltered a lot I just don't know how to act in nightclub or college rager situations- I don't want to be that awkward guy by himself you know.

Do guys usually stay together at clubs in small groups to hit on packs of broads? Any other advice would really help but thanks for the stuff you've already given me, its helped.

Dudes that roll in big groups get no puss, it's intimidating for women to see a group of horny drunk dudes hitting on them at once, stick with a wingman or 2 depending on the size of the group but remember the less guys involved increases your odds of success. Run natural game(see that forum for advise) and HAVE FUN! If you go out with the sole intention of getting some stink, you'll probably fail, chicks can see that shit from a mile away. Meet people and make friends, especially females because common friends=the guy is safe=they want to fuck you. Once you get in with one girl, work your way around her circle of friends and you are so money brotha. Chicks love fucking their friends over, funny huh. Last but not least, don't try too hard! Major turn off, I've watched my Bro's blow a sure thing because they got drunk and assumed the deal was sealed before they got it in. Don't forget to smile, it shows confidence and confidence is key.

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Let me tell you how I do it(I'm 17)

So I go to a teen club all the time i'm a club Promoter there. I basically just tell all my friends(girls) to go there and I get paid. I know everybody at the club that works there and the people that go there every weekend. So Girls notice me from pictures on the website and previous time they have been there. So at this point i'm a alpha male at this club.

Right when I walk through the doors I start dancing. To all the guys that don't know how to dance, I don't know how to dance that well either. I just act my self and have a good time. But just get on the dance floor. Get some girls attention by screaming "yahhhhhhhhhhh" with your hands up in the air(works everytime)

Now when you wanna dance with a girl you can sometime just put your hand on there waste and just start dancing with them but don't get touchy right away.

If you wanna pursue that girl by hooking up with her or something. I will talk to them while i'm dancing asking questions like "how old are you?" "what bring you to the club?" "do you come here a lot?" etc. and making comments like "i'm surprised you don't have a boyfriend" "you look gorgeous" etc. and to talk to them easier while dancing you can dance face to face(GOLD). Dancing face to face is the best thing to do because your making total eye contact smiling and she is grind on your dick making you hard. That's when you can just slowly go in for the kiss but not to fast just take it slowwwwww. I kiss many girls on the dance floor.

I will sometimes say "i'm getting kinda hot you wanna go sit down with me?" and most of the time if they are interested they will go sit down with you.

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Actually i have to advice you about this. A dance party is what everyone wishes to be a dazzling star out there. so you need to know some basic about how to be there.

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Get drunk and the rest will follow.

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Thanks man. Do you usually kinda chill by yourself when you're not with a girl or do you hang with a guy or two and dance around them so it doesn't look awkward and all

Koon is on point, smart kid lol stop trying to analyze every situation. The key is to have fun and not worry so much. If you try to script your night it will be boring and chicks don't dig boring guys.

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When i'm dancing with a girl i'm still trying to look for others girls so I have a plan B on who i'm gonna dance/hookup with next. Sometime it will be just my buddy and I and we will just get on the dance floor and have a good time while we are looking around. We will usually find a set of 2 and then just go by them and start dancing near them and get there attention by screaming(yahhhhhhhhhhhh) or you can do what ever you want to get there attention. And just start dancing around them and then just start talking to them and then start dancing to them or you can just start dancing with them without talking to them.

When I see a HB10 dancing alone and I see all of these guys trying to get her she just rejects them and then you think i'm gonna be scared because I wont be only because I don't just go by her and ask her to dance. What I do is just start dancing around them and get her attention and then start talking to her(make eye contact) and then when you ask her to dance during a good song then she will say yes.

Most of the time when I go to the club all the guys are just standing along the wall not even having a good time. Then when they try to go up to a girl to dance the girl is gonna say no because your not on the dance floor having a good time. Your just standing there watching everybody else. Girls wanna see the guys having fun. And honestly I don't care if the guys stand against the wall because that just means for broads for me to scout for.

sometimes I wont end up dancing with a girl till the middle of the night. Me and my buddy just scout looking for girls that are rejecting guys and the ones that are single and we are looking for a lot of stuff in these women before we approach them because then I know how to get them.

EYE CONTACT
When you make eye contact with a girl for 3 sec smile at her and then go by her and dance with her. Last time I went to the club there was a girl across the dance floor and she was on a stand dancing and so was I and then a girl approached her and then she is looking at me and then I look at her and then I smile and then she did and I pointed at her and I walked by her and danced with her and she knocked that kid off her.


Just have fun thats all I gotta say.


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i relate to your situation.. a few months back i never really went out to clubs because either i didnt know how to dance or didnt had a date to go with... then a friend persuaded me to go with him to clubs. my first club nights i got shot down multiple times and it was because i wasnt being confident.. i began working on inner game specially confidence and soon everything started to fall in place i still get shot down but it doesnt affect me at all now. but at the same i get many chicks to dance with me...

this is what i do when i arrive and during at the club:
-smile(always smile, girls are more receptive to guys that have a positive mood.)
-walk slow, relaxed (dont show any qualities of neediness)
-usually i never really ask a girl to dance with me. i just extend my hand with a smile while dancing and about 80% of the time girls follow along and dance with me..
- like many of you, i dont know how to dance either, but i just tend to move along with the music. [i mimmick the people around me, or the ones that seem to know what they are doing]

Unlike Koon, im not a promoter or anything to the club so everytime i go clubbing i have to Demonstrate High Value.
the way i do it its like this.
-Usually if there is a line, i talk to the guys on the line both the ones in front and in back of me, so once inside the club i would talk to them [usually some of them bring girls so when i talk to them inside the club the girls in their social circle are more receptive to dancing and talking to me + it demonstrates value to the people around and others girls will see this.]
-i try to have a talk with the bouncers, and bartenders everytime i see them. [this way they would recognize you when you go to the venue+ it creates instant value because girls that see you automatically think you know them]
-i usually just tend to be enjoying myself, girls see this and they feel the vibe. it automatically drags them to you.
there been several times i catch girls giving me eye contact inviting me to approach them.

Closing
i still struggle at closing, but i find more effective to ask for her number and lying to her that i would leave, to another venue and that i would like to see her again..

hope this helps...
Watch "keys to the VIP" on youtube
it will teach you what not to do, and many openers that you could use to start off.

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