| I’ve alluded to this in other posts but I think this needs a separate post all for itself. It’s critical, and should to a greater or lesser degree, it should underly every interaction you have when you talk to a woman.
It seems strange to me but I think a lot of men are actually afraid of the vagina. You can see it when they talk to a girl. It’s either:
Overly logical or boring
Overly complimentary
“Gamey” – the words are uttered to make it appear sexual, but it’s not!
The question is – do you actually want to fuck women, or not? Or do you want the validation of your peers / friends? Do you want your ego to be satisfied that you are “good with girls” or “taking steps to sort out this part of your life”
Forget all that…You have to get in touch with your sexuality. Raw, untinctured. Harness the power of your natural instincts!
Do you believe that men and women get together because they feel desire and passion for each other? They want to fuck?
Or is it about common interests / hobbies? Instinctively, which one do you think it is?
Back in the day I used to go to sexually charged clubs a lot…When I started out at age 18 I used to just walk up to women in nightclubs and start kissing them immediately..Sometimes 6 or 7 in a night..Not saying a word. It cuts right through to the chase, cuts out all the nonsense. I knew straight away that this is what seduction was all about.
Now that I am older I still have the same belief but have refined it..But I know that this sexual, raw element needs to be there. It has to be the MOTIVATION to talk to her in the first place.
On a practical level, how do you begin to tap into this?
1:/ Do not masturbate. This is an old chestnut but it has the effect after a few days of making you horny, simple.
2:/ Start eating good wholesome foods, cutting out alcohol, sleeping well. Get exercise.
3:/ When you see a woman you like and want to approach…Blank your mind of everything and FOCUS ON HER. Focus on her beauty. Look at her ass..Watch it move…Imagine that ass in front of you and your cock sliding in and out of her pussy..Look at her tits..Imagine sucking on them…Imagine her riding you with them bouncing around and a look of ecstacy on her face with her head thrown back..
Feel the desire running through your body and then approach…For gods sake she’s a WOMAN..Don’t you want to take her to bed?
Do you know the best compliment you can give a woman, is to desire her..But actually mean it..Just raw desire. Like a child that sees a toy and wants it, grabs for it. The child feels no other conflicting emotions about it, doesn’t worry about what it is thinking..It just WANTS THAT TOY!
You have to try to be the same about a woman..
If you can, spend a bit of time just looking at her and appreciating her, putting yourself in this state before you approach. Use that desire to galvanise you to action. It is more overpowering than any negative emotion associated with approaching (e.g. fear etc)
4:/ Practice putting yourself in this sexual state as often as you can. Envision scenarios like the one above throughout your day..Revel in it! Get used to thinking like this, feeling this raw, animal state. It is your RIGHT as a man to feel this way and it is a GOOD thing!
This is not a technique, it is not a piece of technology..This is what real men do when they talk to women.
Don’t be afraid of the vagina. _________________ The natural "Steve" who trained Richard La Ruina (Gambler)
http://www.authenticpua.com/primal-seduction/
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