hey everyone,
going to keep it short...

So i used to be an naturel cocky and funny guy,
i used it on evryone men+woman no matter what age
i diddent even knew pua existed
this was when i was about 11-16 years
then i quited school and started smoking marihuana.
since that time i just can't do it annymore...
i think to much about what people will say
only to some close friends i can still be that guy, with i like
now annyone knows how to stop being a f pussy?

thank for responses

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There are a lot of ways to program you into stop caring about people's reactions. But first your post could use a spellchecker!

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Dude you can´t be serious! The weed you smoke is messing with your game obviously. Grass can make you selfconscious even paranoid. And if you are very young (and I take it that you are young) it can fuck up the development of your personality and self-esteem.
Take this advice from a man who´s been there: Stop smoking weed and you´ll do MUCH better! (In EVERY aspect of your life)

I was exactly the same dude. I have stopped smoking it now and it took a while but now i can slip back into that subconscious cocky-funny state when im in a good mood. Honestly, what helped me was alcohol, when i drank i didn't give two shits about what people thought. This isnt necessarily a PUA technique but it will help your confidence

I personally find that drugs and alcohol mess you up when it comes to dealing with women . It make you lose control, and you do not show your real self. Learn the game should allow you to be naturally effective with women, without needing to take any other stuff to do that.

Anyway I think, if C&F was a natural trait of your personnality, your can, by practicing bring it back to surface.

What you should first do is to take back the control over your life. And no to care about what people think, you've got to work deeply on your inner game. What helped me the most that for was david x's stuff.

Take care

I used to naturally have some very good game, always had standards and dated beautiful girls, that was before i started smoking weed. For 3 years i smoked weed heavily every day and i socially withdrew and lost all of my game with women. Now that I have quit for 2 years I have had to learn about pua and substitute for what i had naturally, I understand how the weed is affecting your game negatively and I highly recommend you not to smoke up before going out to sarge or meeting women in general.

Dude, I know exactly what you're talking about. When I was younger I would talk to anyone about anything. Then, I got sick and became self conscious about myself, then I started smoking weed which just made it so much worse! If I smoke weed, I won't say anything to anyone, avoid eye contact and in my own head become a total fuckin' weirdo! I haven't smoked weed in about 3 months and feel like million bucks these days. I'm sarging and starting to see progress in the game! Get off the doja cuz! Also, a few beers will help you...but don't get loaded drunk so that you don't know what you're doing!

I didn't read the whole post but:
I had this after and while I was addicted to video games, I dropped but the LAME perception of life stayed, I was like, if I do something wrong I will be punished and shit, something scary will happen and I don't want that so I must be EXTREMELLY cautios.

Read my other posts.

Here's THE advice you need.
Imagine you're somewhere else, you can see what your body sees through a screen and it doesn't matter what you do. Now have fun and do what you want to, it doesn't matter, just don't kill YOUR OWN life. (Key: YOUR life, no-one has power over it except YOU.)

Also, stop thinking about shit that doesn't interest you, find what you like, find what you wanna do, life has all of it and you really don't want that much.
You don't really give a fuck about what they say or do, now do you? What CAN they do? Nothing. It's all yours to control.

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If I was in your situation I would, start out making a topics list and randomly pick a topic at a time. For instance, say I pick hobbies, then more deep I pick softball. So I start off by thinking in my mind what could I say that would be tease her, neg, or pull & pull. Don't hold me on this but I would say ...
Her: I play softball
Me: eh, u do look like a home run! Smile*
Her: thanks
Me: oh, don't get ur hopes up, i wouldn't even try to go to first base with ya.

Take something simple and make it cocky!
Hope I helpd u, peace!

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