okay here is a little history:
i work for a grocery store, im a cashier so i talk to a lot of people all day every day, but i usually don't have women hit on me, For the past couple of days quiet a few older women have been hitting on me, for ex: when i stand in front of my check-stand to bring people in, one has said "i thought you were trying to pick me up"(we both just laughed and i helped her checkout) when we were still talking before she left she said "id totally go out with you if only you were a bit older" then another one has started shopping at my store, and the second day she said id take you for dinner but only if you were 20 years older, i just cant figure out what to say to that.
O and right now im 22 lol

''I see, where would you take me if we went on a date?''

then just say, cool I like that

qualify them for their idea and why you like it (why they are qualified), then invite them out

time to stop sitting back and being reactive waiting for girls to come hit on you, time for you to start hitting on girls,

be the hunter, not the hunted

To borrow a parlance of the community, the age thing is a false disqualifier. It's basically a way for older women to say, "Hey, I'm attracted to you," to somebody who social norms dictate they shouldn't be attracted to.

To be successful in this situation, demonstrate three things: A) you are open to the idea, B) you are mature and smooth enough to maintain her interest, and C) you are discreet.

And remember,
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Your boy,
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I used to work at a place that served alcohol and a milf (42 to my 21; at the time) waitress would sneak me drinks while we were both working. One day she commented that I should be careful because she might be trying to get me drunk. I replied "you wouldn't have to" (a rare smooth moment for me at that age). She started 'charging' me kisses for drinks; we were making out before long. After everyone else left I fucked her that night at work.

Women have different mindsets when they're older. They are usually taken care of (independent, divorced, widowed or cheating), so these women will be more attracted to looks and be more aggressive. Well to do women middle-aged women are just as superficial about looks like guys--they don't need power/money, so they are after healthy genes. They will even game young, good-looking guys (870's right: she opened with a disqualifier) If it was just the two of you she might flat out attack you; but in public she must be more indirect. She may also be insecure and want to save her pride.

Just find a way to let her know you think she's hot and she's not being a silly old lady. She will probably do a lot of the work. However, she is still a woman. You can't be a pussy and if you show alpha characteristics that's a bonus. I had to punch through some LMR with the milf co-worker, even though she was very flirtatious and sexual all day. So, you still need to relate man to woman even if she games you. She's just opening and skipping the bitch shield and shit tests.


suggestions:

here, give me your number... I'll call you in 20 years

In 20 years you'll be saying the same thing to my son, except you'll be 20 years older... we might as well do this now.

The problem with being young is I'm so impatient--I have to have everything now.

In 20 years I'll be married with a family--better strike while the iron is hot!

Actually I have Benjamin Button syndrome--I'm 60 years old and you're too young for me.



you get the idea... just sub-communicate "I want to fuck you too"

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thx guys you've been alot of help.
one more question, how should i open younger girls who are my age when they come checkout through me.
the cool thing about where i work is we get alot of foreign girls.

A woman who really wanted sex wouldn't say that to you. Older women fuck young dudes all the time. So it really isn't you're age. Talk to me when you've nailed one of these older ladies.