| Hey.
First of all, Im very new(AFC) and Im just trying to start talking to people, I am ballsy(Can hold eye contact, say whatever). So just tell me what u truly think, and I will try it for sure!
So today I went out to talk to some people with a friend. I approached and opened with a random question:
Me: Hey, whats up guys, got a question here: If u had 1 million dollars, what would u do with it, u have until 24:00 to spend it(the clock was 23:30).
Target: I would go to a stripclub for sure!
Me: Ah, so u are that type of girl, thats funny, how about you (girl2)?
Girl2: I would go run buy a car.
Some smallchat, then i left. Was not a long set, I went back to my friend for about ~15-20 min and decided to go back in again in the same set for a direct numberclose.
Me: Hey you (strong eye-contact /w the target).
Target: Hey again!
Me: I just wanted to say, I find u alittle cute, but I am with my friend and cannot talk so I want to take ur number.
Target smiles while holding eyecontact.
Girl2: She has a boyfriend
(turningpoint? At this point I went Honesty mode, because I had this shittest thrown my way a few days ago, and I just walked off. So I decided to try something.)
Me: Tell me, how long have u been together?
Target: 3 months.
Me: Thats funny, u know my friend was in this position a few nights back and he ended up taking the girl home, the point she did not have a girlfriend. But hey! it was nice talking to you all, CYA!
What do u guys think about direct-approaches in a big group, I mean if u go so direct in at ur target instantly, what will the rest of group do? And how do I go in so direct at a seated group?
I find myself in the mode of "GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE!" When this kind of stuff happens, how should I have reacted?
Ive Had this shit test thrown my way 3 times now, only 1 of them had the boyfriend with her. I need to try it more, I know, 3 is not a lot.
Thanks people!
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