One MAJOR sticking point I have is just general flirtation to build up attraction. I can approach a girl in most settings reasonably well, I can build comfort/rapport pretty well, but building attraction is a major sticking point. As a college student especially, being comfortable with flirting is paramount to being able to build relationships with female for the more longterm game that becomes important in college.

I always have lots of trouble expressing that kind of direct interest through flirting. Does anyone have any tips/lines that I could use to start feeling it out and help myself get comfortable with it?

--Mosquito

Do it from the start. For me flirting was the only way I knew how to talk. Almost every word that came out of my mouth was flirtatious. Mainly because I was immature.

Be cocky about it too. I was nice to this one girl, and was being cautious because at the time I had onitis and I was getting no where. Then I said fuck it and decided to see how she'd react to me being flirty.

We were out with some friends at McDonald's and we had no sexual chemistry what-so-ever aside from cuddling sometimes. Every word that came out of my mouth was dirty. I was opening white McChicken sauce and asked her "Wouldn't you like it, if I squirted this all over your face?". I also said things like "Well me and HB8 are going home to fuck see ya guys later". She would just laugh and hit me on the arm. The next day she told my friends she liked me, and then we started seeing each other after that.

Just do it man. If you notice they're uncomfortable from the start then tone it down. It eventually becomes a part of your personality. I flirt with girls I have no attraction towards what-so-ever. It just becomes natural and girls love that you can have some fun.

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