My Girl has alot of guy friends, im feeling a little insecure like "these guys could be Gaming my woman when im not around." If I see it happen my first reaction is to break alot of guys faces. What should I do in the event of a guy flirting with my girlfriend right in front of me, so it doesnt end in a violent confrontation?

I know I cant thrash every guy who flirts with her, she is a 10, but I can make an example out of a few of them. Thats all I know, thats how I was brought up. But I know there is another way to handle these situations, But for some reason I cannot think of it alone...

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-Holiday MD

Hey man, try posting in the 'Relationships' section.

Just quick advice though: Don't worry about her, if they are her friends then that's all they are and they will remain just friends.

Go to the Relationships section and we'll help you out properly.

I tried posting there but it said I needed more posts before I could post in that section. Thanks for the advise man.

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Work on your confidence, right now you feel like she is the catch(you need to protect it). You need to change that perspective to the fact that YOU are the catch, not her. You didn't get lucky, she did. You are being the reacher and she is the settler (as stolen from How I Met Your Mother). Basically you care too much about this situation. The person who cares the least about the relationship owns the relationship or the attraction(if there is any attraction).

Flirting is natural and expected, jealousy is severely overrated along with physical confrontation. At the end of the day if she goes home with you, why do you care?

I understand how you feel, I've been a jealous guy before but the easiest way to handle it is to treat it as it is, not a big deal. WE ALL FLIRT, it's healthy, if your relationship doesn't have flirting than it isn't a good one. I expect any girl I date to flirt, that is natural.

If a guy starts flirting with her let it go. Deflate the guy a little, walk up to your girl and say "how sweet you found a crush." Flirt a little poke fun, but don't go the negative route, if you can't stand dating a girl that is attractive maybe you shouldn't. You have to be comfortable to poke fun at the situation, if your negative tone leaks through she will reflect that negativity back.

You need to just learn to live with the fact that you have a high demand mate, your confidence (self-assurance) needs to match the level of that high demand mate. Know guys are going to flirt, know she is going to flirt back. At the end of the day realize, she went home and fucked you. Not that guy she flirted with at the party. Was she attracted? Perhaps, but you need to get over the fact that every woman you date will be attracted to other men, it's natural and biological.

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