This is a magic wand technique I've been using recently with good results. It's a simple, 3-step process to turn your weaknesses into strengths. Or rather, how to influence how other people perceive your "flaws".

An outline:

1. Re-frame your low value traits
2. Re-frame "concealing your traits" as "being mysterious and intriguing". Pass tests by default.
3. Handle inquiries to off-limit areas in a socially intelligent manner.

The first 2 steps are one-offs. Step 3 is a skill you have to learn.

I'll demonstrate on an example. My "low value" personality traits:

-Low social status job
-Heavy weed smoker
-Manipulative
-Poor morals

This is after I cleaned up the bits about me I didn't like. These traits are basically part of my core personality. Gotta keep that congruence.

Watch what happens when I do a simple re-frame.

-Low social status job -> Perseverance in doing something you love instead of doing what you think other people would want.
-Heavy weed smoker -> Confident, friendly, fearless person with a passion for life. Comfortable everywhere and with everyone.
-Manipulative -> Sharp social skills and a willingness to stand your ground.
-Poor morals -> Strong personal moral compass.

If you sit down with a piece of paper and write out your insecurities on one side, then a re-frame for each on the other, you've got step 1 done.

If there are parts of your life that are "low value", re-frame them in your mind.

Step 2. Creating mystery.

Okay. You've re-framed. You're high value from now on. Think you can run around telling people you're unemployed and dating your sister? I've seen it done. But it only works on complete strangers. (Congruence is a bitch.) Or also if your sense of humor is God-like.

Meanwhile in the real world. No. You don't tell a football hooligan that you're fond of the team that just beat his, and you don't tell a woman you're a dope addict. Or how many women you've slept with.

You've got to hide it. A man with high social intelligence would do just that. Same as in the previous step, we just re-frame it.

Hiding something -> Mysterious, intelligent, discrete

Et voila. No one can inquire into your concealed life without reinforcing your new frame. Thus creating attraction... you get the idea.

"Take personal responsibility for your secrets."

Step 3. Handle inquiries smoothly.

Once you have these mindsets, your interactions will naturally start to change. You will start to act the way you really want to. No one around you will know why.

It's an amazing feeling. Like the first time you wake up and decide you're going to be free from now on.

Now you have to learn a new skill. Through practice, feedback and calibration.

What's going to happen is the girl is going to want to start asking you lots and lots of questions to find out the bits you've concealed. She'll put pressure on you. You have to kill this exchange fast. Respond creatively. The key is to surprise her. Then stack to a new routine.

Surprise her and then stack to a new routine.

Some examples:

-Provide a little bit of information. Not too little and not too much. Then make a situational observation to change the topic.

-Use (cocky) humor to disarm her and then turn it into flirting. Keep it funny and playful.

-Improvise a DHV story in response to the question. Keep it vaguely related.

-Roll your eyes and feign boredom. Let your eyes lighten up when you remember there's something you wanted to tell her.

-Shock her with a bold answer that implies your superiority. Then do some eye gazing and smiling.

-Fire an anchor for surprise. Then one for curiosity. Then one for attraction. Then give her an embedded command/compliance test/kino escalation.

The structure is basically:

Match her energy level with a creative, playful response to occupy her conscious resources. Lead her into something sexier/more comfortable/more fun.

This will be maybe 2% of your interactions. For the 98% left do what you would normally do when you're with a girl.

Women eat this up. They love it.

And remember, if you're mysterious, she'll be fantasizing about you even as you're talking to her and she'll come up with details that far outdo anything you could have ever come up with. Hint at your positive traits, imply them. Leave reasons and fantasies up to her.