Why would you not post it? Of course people are interested in getting out of the friendzone, that's how a lot of us found this forum!

It's pretty simple, the question is do you want to put so much effort into one girl?

Stop seeing her for 2-12 months.
Stop texting/calling/facebooking/smoke signals.
Return as a man improved in as many ways as possible.
This time show your sexual intent early on, like within the first interaction.

Voila out of the friendzone. Prepare for shit tests like never before "you've changed" "i don't like it" "what happened to the old you" "you used to be such a nice guy" etc.

purple smash man u overdid it bro you don't want to avoid her for so long and if you really want the girl that's going to be a pain in the ass even for you

i agree with goldenghetto, i understand that there are ways out of the friend zone but what is this way out that has worked well for you six times?

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Not really, it's quite effective. The months spent not pining over your oneitis really help you get over her. Every time I've done it I meet a new girl that I like even more, that I'm not in the friendzone with. Then when I meet the old oneitis I'm not coming from a place of desperation, and I'm no longer placing her on a pedestal.

Anyways, what's your magical method?

Agreed. Solution = Approach more girls. Tyler from RSD has 2 really good videos on youtube on this if you're interested, one's called 'Cure To Catching Feelings & Sinking Into Scarcity' and the other one is 'Crawling Out Of Neediness When First Dating'.

Give her some time, forget about her, and if you see her again down the track make sure you relate as 'man-to-woman' right off the bat, like get up in her grill and shit. But by then you will have other girls, so you actually won't give a shit about her when you see her (freedom from outcome)...

Hope this helps

I JUST wrote a post related to this topic in another thread, so I'm just going to link it: building-attraction-without-getting-fri ... 30505.html

Hopefully that's helpful.

EDIT: For the record, I find the Orientfox's initial post to be obnoxious in the extreme. Either write posts to help others or GTFO. We're not here to stroke your ego.

-Wolf

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Orientfox. Purplesmash gave everything in a nuthsell.
I agree.

The OP's just another baka behind his computer. He doesn't know jack There is no method for getting out of the friendzone that's going to work for everyone. Once you're friendzoned it takes almost divine intervention to get out.

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I have the secret method. Its called talking about bitches and making her jealous, or talking about sex and making her horny very quickly

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I was put in the friendzone my junior year of High School. She was a Cheer leader and I was the captain of the football and baseball team. We hung out on the weekends watching movies and crap and I would drive her around bullshitting after school alot. One day, we hugged, and I told her hair smelt good and proceeded to try and kiss her neck. She wasn't having it and gave me the, "Were to good of friends speech". We had been good friends since 2nd grade. And at this time I had to make it clear I would not be in the friendzone, so I started ignoring her.

We rarely exchanged more than a few sentences after that UNTIL:

Sophomore year in college 2 years later. She called me out of the blue to small talk and complain about her current long distance relationship. She invited me over to watch movies in her dorm and drink. I accepted.

BUT, I ended up blowing her off and hanging with her room mates sister.

2 years after that(presently) she contacted me on Facebook again complaining about her current relationship and how she's gonna be in town this weekend and the only person she wants to see is me.

SO, pretty much my advice is, stop being her friend. She then has a decision to either pull out the guns or stop talking to you altogether. Have to be OK with either outcome.

My 2nd friendzone fiend:
I moved out of state for 6 months, and when I came back she wanted to go to a bar with me. We had a very flirty relationship but we never fooled around during our 5 year friendship. (Really cool chick honestly). We go to a couple bars with 2 buddies and around midnite I tell her to hold my drink while I use the restroom. About the time I go to close the restroom door she sneaks in and I ask her, "What are you doing?", she says "I don't know" laughing. I move in closer to her and TRY to kiss her and she storms out. IDK what the fuck this broad was doing honestly. On the way home I tell her to "Pull over so I can fuck you brains out" and she said nothing. As I got out of the car I told her "Fuck You" and left.

The next day she hits me up on Facebook to say, "That was wild last night huh?"...which only led to a argument about why we didn't fuck and because we were to good of friends.

Haven't talked to her in a year. Although I'm sure once she gets out of her relationship she will come back. Time will tell.

But...as Dr. Marston says, don't forget to submit to the woman's love!

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holy shit, that is most definitely the way to do it, and i only just realized after reading that, that doing those things got me out of the friendzone not once but twice! i didn't realize till i thought about it there, that with both those girls the pattern of what happened was the same...crazy...

but yeah alot of effort if you're actually trying to do it on purpose. also, think how you might change your mind while doing a freezeout for such a long period of time...one of my two, i completely regretted afterwards...had someone else on my mind