Alright so when it comes to my game I can naturally attract girls pretty easily, but I can't seem to maintain it, what contributes to that is that when I see that I have an opportunity to escalate I don't know how to respond at that moment so I non blatantly keep things where there at, so then the attraction fades real quick, also a lot of not being able to keep attraction could be contributed to lack of phone game. I'm not very good at texting and I find it hard to call someone for no reason at all. Now I find myself in a position trying to get with this girl, but the attraction is fading fast!!! Do y'all have any suggestions to help me out with my situation? And I really need help with escalation!!!

Stop caring about what would happen if you escalate, trust me the worst a girl would do is say stop. ESCALATE!!!!!!!! Girls like being chased and escalated on but it comes down to how much attraction you've created, and how comfortable she is with you. You said you get the attraction, so start playfully teasing her and tickling her. From that point on just let things play out. If you don't know what that means, check out that vin de carla escalation ladder, you can google it.

The most practical and greatest advice I read on this forum was, "if she looks bored, start escalating" It's the truth!!

Thanks I like it and it makes complete sense. What about texting and calling how can I get better at that to help me out too?

I had this problem with low confidence, and ignorance for a long time. I didn't know how to escalate and certainly didn't believe I could.

The key to maintaining attraction as Ken said is escalation. A woman will only wait for you to make the move for so long, and then she moves on and gives up on the idea of any sexual future. It takes a little talent to maintain sexual attraction between friends.

Escalation starts with closing the distance, we give different people different distances. We don't stand as close to our friends or relatives as someone we want to get intimate with. You want to make sure you stand with in a more intimate circle. Now that doesn't mean as soon as the interaction starts you crowd her, it means when attraction is built closing the distance is a major step. After all friends don't escalate, potential sexual partners do. I often times stand next to them shoulder to shoulder.

After distance is the obvious touch. Touch can and should start of innocent in MOST but NOT all cases. I often start off with a light touch to the upper shoulder, sometimes that is flirting and bumping into her shoulder to shoulder. Then I usually end up moving to having my arm around her rib cage. Some girls will hook themselves around my arm and I do it back but I prefer to just put my arm around them.

After that it is all about building intimacy and staying the attractive person you are.

As far as maintaining attraction through text that is an entirely different game. Getting a girls number is easy in comparison to getting a meet up. We all get stood up here and there. Life is busy and shit happens, it's not like you are the most attractive guy in the world to this girl. You are just another guy looking to get it her knickers, the point is to keep it a fun interaction. I'll write up a multi part blog on text game and have it come out over the next few days.

A few of the basics of text game:
-Are keep her interested that means making sure you aren't like everyone else. If you think you sound like everyone else you need to stop sending messages.
-Don't start texting a girl something she can't interact in. "Hey beautiful" is not a good opening text, it is horrible and a cop out. It is sending out something and hoping you get something back. Text something you expect to be answered.
-Remind them of why they are attracted.

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