This is my first post, I really hope it's in the right place!

So I just started a new job 2 weeks ago, and im crazy about this girl in work. Were both the youngest in the office so it's pretty obvious there could be an interest there. I work as a designer, the job is casual and people are all friends and we can talk and laugh all day. The main problem is, im a huge believer in "don't shit where you eat", so I can't make up my mind what game I want to play. Ideally I'd like to try to get us completely on our own, away from anyone at work and their prying eyes and where I can just feel more relaxed.

My strategy so far is to mainly ignore her in work but I act quite different at social events, but I'm still hard to read. I guess in the last two weeks, I've been building comfort.

Here are some major IOU's so far.
1)Great chemistry the first few days at work. On the second day of work she said I look like Ryan Gosling (which I do get sometimes)
2)First friday out we were both alone in the pub after colleagues left and we opted to stay for a few extra drinks, built a lot of attraction.
3) She mentioned joining a sport thing with her and me for after work on a few occasions. I didn't massively play up to it, don't want to seem anyway eager.
4)Last friday there was a going away party, I got a chance to kino and play with her hands, all very compliant and flirtatious. Actually, another girl across the room called me aside to tell me 'that blonde girl is mad into you, go for it!'

Also, In a shared taxi home she said I had a really nice ass while I was in the front seat! In retro-spec I guess I completely bottled it, I seem to have a complex about other work people being around me. I want to be professional at work but I don't know how to play this one. I also don't know how to ask her out?

I don't really know if I should be interested in this girl because I work with her but im pretty decided that I need to a least kiss her. What are the general thoughts about girls at work? Good idea / bad idea?

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Dating girls at work is awesome man. You'd better kiss her before you get friendzoned.

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Glade couldn't have said it any better.

From the sounds of it you could probably be knee deep in it or at least dating (depending on what kind of guy you are) by now.

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What are you wating for?????? Try to keep it professional here dont ask her out at work. Thats just my opinion if you want to be low key about it. But before asking her out ask yourself what you want from this girl. Man up dont fuck this up she clearly sounds like she is into you. Dont forget the three principles to any relationship, "Honesty, Trust, and Respect".(David X) GOOD LUCK

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Avoid it, first 2 weeks on the job. Your life is more important then getting tail at work. Very few human beings can handle a professional and romantic(or just sexual) relationship. I will be the guy to go against it. I've done it with several girls(customers and employees) at my old work but that was because I knew how to put down the limitations. If you are knew to the game, and not so talented at handling your own emotions(needing to ask for support is showing a lack of control of your emotions) let alone theirs I'd say avoid hooking up with any co-workers especially if it isn't a huge office. At my work there was over 100 employees and then 1000s of customers and still made for some weird moments. When you go from talking with a girl you hooked up with recently to another you had already to another you are trying to it just becomes a huge headache.

AVOID MESSING WITH GIRLS AT WORK UNTIL YOU HAVE GREAT CONFIDENCE AND MATURITY(sexually and emotionally).

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Amen

You don't shit where you eat.