What I've realized in natural game is that you must be friends with a lot of girls and have healthy relationships with them, they are not just sex toys.

so, what I'm asking is, how can i get a girl to see me as her friend, nothing else.
because i see a lot of girls, but i can't get close enough because they always think my intentions aren't good (negs could work but I don't have the intention of gaming at that point), i don't want their boyfriends to be jealous and i don't want the girls to think i want something more, because if I'm friends with a girl, i can be friends with her friends and then that's when the shit happens

-Voyrin.

I also wanted to know this. There's some girls I meet and talk to for days after and I actually like them as people and wanna be a friend because she doesn't quite do it for me sexually.

I enjoy female company, even if anything sexual is far on the list. At the same time I don't want to be needy (girls have friends and can spread the word!) or too nice just so I'm labelled a friend.

This goes situations where I have and haven't slept with them.

Be cool attractive guy(personality wise), and DON'T make a move. Pretty simple pretty easy. Sure they may still be attracted but if you don't elevate your good. When it comes with being a friend with a girl that has a boyfriend you MUST befriend the boyfriend too.

It never hurts to say things along the lines of "oh man you seem/sound/feel like you'd be a good friend." Point out that you are looking for friendship at moments here and there. I have quite a few women friends, I usually kick it with women because when you go out and have hot girls rolling with you you gain like automatic social proof. I almost always roll to bars, clubs, and concerts with 2 gorgeous women(they are some of my best friends), or I meet up with a few different ones I know. Everywhere I go I usually recognize a good looking women and get a hug, social proof basically everywhere.

You can only nail so many friends in one social circle though, so every time you nail a friend are you going to find a different friend? I suggest finding a couple of dope women and using them as your wing women, purely for social proof and company. The women I have around right now are cool like that, they would roll with me and introduce me to girls if I asked. If you are rolling around with 2 hot women and they are talking you up to another one you are pretty set.

I want to point out that I don't use these women just because they are good looking and are great social proof, I just am very good friends with these women and they are a ton of fun to hang out with. So be there friend to be friends don't be there friend to use them to bang their friends.

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No escalation. But keep your personality and "value", just don't escalate, physically, sexually or any other way.