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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 8:57 pm 
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im in highschool. yesterday i met this girl who is right next to my locker. I found out the same day she rode my bus. Today i saw her in the morning. heres how our conversation went

Me:hey ___
Girl:hey how are you?
Me:im good. it was freezing outsize
Girl: yea it was. Are you riding the bus home today?
Me: yea
Girl: i have something to do after school. (i forgot what it was) so ill probably see you later today
Me:okay. What class do you have first period?
Girl: umm english
Me: can i walk you there?
Girl: thats really nice but i have to go to my guidance counselor
Me:guidance counselor? okay.
Girl:see you later
Me:see yea at the end of the day (i then leave)

So heres our conversation at the end of the day
Girl: hey ____how was your day?
Me: it was okay but i did bad in basketball today
Girl:gym?
Me yea team sports
Me how was your day?
girl: it was good
Me: are you still staying after school
Girl: no, it was snowing so it was cancelled
Me: oh okay hopefully itll be a snow day
Girl:Yea i hope so too
We stare at each other and then i leave. How can i stop being a lil bitch and get to know her better? I really want her number and i wanted to walk her to the bus but i was scared that it wouldnt come out my mouth right. so i just left. i cant talk to her on the bus because she talks to her two girl friends. What do i do?


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Stop being a wuss. "Can I walk you to class"? Tell her your gonna walk her to class/ bus or anywhere.
Do you want to get to know her or attract her? If you wanna attract her, stop with the boring conversations and start teasing her and joking with her. Make her laugh, touch her, develop a flirty relationship. Once she's more opened to you, she won't have a reasonable excuse not to give you her WHEN you ask for it and may even ask for yours. Then you can continue from there.
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An easier way to get her number is to start a conversation on facebook and nonchalantly asking for it. If you see her everyday, she probably won't say no. It isn't hard

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 2:56 am 
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question: I want her number but I'm a lil bitch

answer: stop being lil bitch and ask her for her number.

but before doing that...ask yourself if its the number that you really want.

Is it bunch of numbers in a specified order that are your goal...or is it the girl....if it is the girl what precisely do you want from her. You need to know exactly what you want and exactly what's your problem to be able to fix it.


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None of those lines sounded like she laughed afterwards. That's the precursor to pussy. You didn't neg her. You're being her friend, and she's gonna LJBF you first chance she gets. Talk to her in a cheeky way, but don't be an ass:

Girl: yea it was. Are you riding the bus home today?
Me: No, I was thinking about taking a pterodactyl

Girl: i have something to do after school. (i forgot what it was) so ill probably see you later today
Me: Maybe, if you're lucky. ;)

You can do this for awhile. Remember don't be a total asshole, all tongue in cheek. If she starts smiling more, chuckling or laughing you're on the right track.

And oh GOD I wouldn't ask for her number in the state of affairs you have now. Build that report with her or you're setting yourself up for rejection.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 8:49 am 
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DON'T ASK FOR HER NUMBER!!

You see her every day as it is. Why do you need the number? So you can wuss out even worse on the phone and make her feel uncomfortable? The answer is held within YOU. Picture it from this perspective. You already have it in the bag. Where the hell she gonna go? Her locker is beside yours. You don't need a number. You can bypass everything. These are the situations I die for man. Numbers are crap, women say they are busy, don't answer, will call you back. UGH and there isn't much you can do. The more you call the further you dig yourself. However in your situation you're in. Just play it cool.

Go out one weekend and approach a bunch of random girls. It should feel as natural as talking to your mom or sister. Otherwise you are thinking too much.

Next time she is on the bus with the two girls. Start up a conversation with the girls. Use your locker friend as social proof, then quickly steal the show. You're posting in the natural section so I'm literally telling you to say what ever comes to mind. You're a social guy. You are comfortable around women. It's a NATURAL every day thing to you. You don't ask for numbers because that's not natural. Natural is "Ok cool, how do I get ahold of you?" How you set that up is up to you. Time is on your side my friend. Don't try absolutely anything but building up social value and making tons of friends that are girls. The rest will fall into place NATURALLY!! haha.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:47 pm 
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Ok kids, here's how it should go down:

Me:hey!
Girl:hey how are you?
Me:I'm awesome, how's your day going?
Girl: Going good. Are you riding the bus home today?
Me: Maybe, i wast thinking about going to the park
to watch the clouds for a few hours...
Girl: i have something to do after school. (i forgot what it was) so ill probably see you later today
Me:Cool. What class do you have first period?
Girl: umm english
Me: Cool, I'll walk you there. I prefer Spanish to english class though,
English is SO last century :)
Girl: thats really nice but i have to go to my guidance counselor
Me:Me too, I've got to ask him a few questions about a theory
i've been working on...
Girl:see you later... Wait, a theory?
Me:Yeah, i've been working on it for quite some time and I'd like his input.
Girl:What's the theory...?
Me:I'd love to tell you but i've gotta run, we should meet up later and i
might tell you :)
Girl:Ok cool.

That's just an example of how it could go down in a similar situation.
Now at the end of the day she will be waiting to hear from you
again, instead of just running into you again. By keeping her
in a suspense she would be looking forward to having a
decent conversation with someone on something on
a possible intelligent scale. Girls actually do like
smart guys who are atleast cultured and
have things to talk about other than
themselves.

After you meet up with her again, say straight
to her "You know what, you're real friendly
and it' been great talking to you, it's
rare that you find girls around
here who are pretty and
smart!" In that,you're
indirectly telling her
that she's intelligent
and you find her attractive.

When she says "Thank you :)" (in most cases girls do genuinly reply
with a good response) you say "I've got to run cause I'm meeting
some of my friends later, what would be the best way for us
to keep in touch?" You're now showing her you have
a social life and you have somewhere else to be
but you would like to continue the interaction
with her later by not directly asking for her
number. By asking her what is the best
way to keep in touch with her, she can
think of a variety of ways to get you
to speak with her again. She can
either give you her FB details,
email, SPAM address, BBm,
watsapp...there are so many
ways to keep in touch it's crazy.
She might even give you the old fashioned digits.

After that you tell her that is was great meeting her
and you'll keep in touch with her later in the day, this
can be done by sending her an immediate text after
getting her details, or even a message over the
web, whichever, and ask her "Hey, who do you
think would win in a fight...A kitten or a smurf?"

This is just a silly compliance test to see what her
answer will be, either way it will be funny as you
both could possibly debate on who would win
the battle. There are so many possibilites
from there! I could give some more
input, but I have other people to
help too you know :)

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:29 pm 
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Ok kids, here's how it should go down:

Me:hey!
Girl:hey how are you?
Me:I'm awesome, how's your day going?
Girl: Going good. Are you riding the bus home today?
Me: Maybe, i wast thinking about going to the park
to watch the clouds for a few hours...
Girl: i have something to do after school. (i forgot what it was) so ill probably see you later today
Me:Cool. What class do you have first period?
Girl: umm english
Me: Cool, I'll walk you there. I prefer Spanish to english class though,
English is SO last century :)
Girl: thats really nice but i have to go to my guidance counselor
Me:Me too, I've got to ask him a few questions about a theory
i've been working on...
Girl:see you later... Wait, a theory?
Me:Yeah, i've been working on it for quite some time and I'd like his input.
Girl:What's the theory...?
Me:I'd love to tell you but i've gotta run, we should meet up later and i
might tell you :)
Girl:Ok cool.

That's just an example of how it could go down in a similar situation.
Now at the end of the day she will be waiting to hear from you
again, instead of just running into you again. By keeping her
in a suspense she would be looking forward to having a
decent conversation with someone on something on
a possible intelligent scale. Girls actually do like
smart guys who are atleast cultured and
have things to talk about other than
themselves.

After you meet up with her again, say straight
to her "You know what, you're real friendly
and it' been great talking to you, it's
rare that you find girls around
here who are pretty and
smart!" In that,you're
indirectly telling her
that she's intelligent
and you find her attractive.

When she says "Thank you :)" (in most cases girls do genuinly reply
with a good response) you say "I've got to run cause I'm meeting
some of my friends later, what would be the best way for us
to keep in touch?" You're now showing her you have
a social life and you have somewhere else to be
but you would like to continue the interaction
with her later by not directly asking for her
number. By asking her what is the best
way to keep in touch with her, she can
think of a variety of ways to get you
to speak with her again. She can
either give you her FB details,
email, SPAM address, BBm,
watsapp...there are so many
ways to keep in touch it's crazy.
She might even give you the old fashioned digits.

After that you tell her that is was great meeting her
and you'll keep in touch with her later in the day, this
can be done by sending her an immediate text after
getting her details, or even a message over the
web, whichever, and ask her "Hey, who do you
think would win in a fight...A kitten or a smurf?"

This is just a silly compliance test to see what her
answer will be, either way it will be funny as you
both could possibly debate on who would win
the battle. There are so many possibilites
from there! I could give some more
input, but I have other people to
help too you know :)
Good advice Chai
Make sure you don't use his exact words, if they don't fit your personality or is something you wouldn't normally say your gonna sound incongruent and therefore weird.

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Make sure you don't use his exact words, if they don't fit your personality or is something you wouldn't normally say your gonna sound incongruent and therefore weird.
Yeah exactly, I should have mentioned that last bit in there for them,
thanks brother :)

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I don't think that's good advice at all. Watch clouds at the park? lol.
I'm sure this kind of stuff will work in highschool but it's normal dating advice. Nothing wrong per se but is this not a pua forum? Where is the art? Pickup is messy. Leave the clouds and the flowers business to the women to sort out.

Listen Demerson, what do you really want? Do you want her phone number? Or do you want her to like you? Do you want to go out on a date with her? Or do you want to make out with her on the back of the bus like a bad boy? Really think about this? Do you want to play the dating game (i.e her game) or do you want to keep her guessing. You are better off playing cool, being normal and keep her guessing. When she shows enough signs she likes you, just kiss her.

Your own instincts are telling you NOT to ask for her number. If she was some strange girl you would never meet again. Sure, take a risk. But man, you could play it cool, ride the bus with her, hug her now and again. Tell jokes, horse around. Show her any aspect of your personality you'd like. Whatever, the sky is the limit. You've got the playing field set PERFECTLY and you want to blow it all by triggering her social programming into treating you like an option she has.

Flip the tables. Make her want to ask YOU for YOUR number. Have her be the one nervous while calmly sit there and not even speak because you are so comfortable around her you don't feel the need to impress her, entertain her ect.

Have you ever considered the possibility that you are a male and she is female and therefore would be equally attracted to each other? If you want to put her on the spot and force her to make a decision when you yourself are afraid to make that step... be my guest. She already inquired about you riding the bus. AKA, SHE WANTS TO SIT ON THE BUS WITH YOU. Don't ask, don't even tell her. Just sit next to her and say "hey", go from there. Don't talk about losing basketball games or watching clouds at the park. Talk about the juicy gossip or the cool stuff that you'd be telling your guy friends. Completely entrance her by your presence. Let yourself brush against her and get her emotions going. Just GOD forbid don't run home like a bitch and talk to her from the safety of a telephone only then to be in the situation where you are now trying to get to see her in person again. How unnatural and unlikely to work if you aren't experience. Hell I am experienced and I wouldn't do it.


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I don't think that's good advice at all. Watch clouds at the park? lol.
He can say whatever he wants I'm using that as an example. I even
admitted to that he mustn't use the exact words, he must mix
it up so there will at least be some congruence in the
legitimacy of the interaction.

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