Usually I am like. Suck it! But I do not feel alpha when I say it. Some chicks I hook up with are hippies so they just go at it. Other girls are kind of acting strange when I ask. So the question stands. What is the best way to ask for a BJ. After all the escalation and you got her all horny playing with her crotch and whatnot.

See I love head, I love it. I can eat some pussy too.

The thing is sometimes I over-think here about eating the snatch. I like to get on average like 5 BJ's before I eat her out. I feel like if I start going to town on the bush she will take me for a non alpha and find some other dick. This is all a huge generalization. But the question stands. Suck it bitch. Wanna suck my dick. Lick my balls. Kiss my cock. What do the most alphas of the alphas do?

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During foreplay, talk sexy talk about what you are going to do to her and what you want her to do to you. Start really slow talking about how good her hands feel on you. Then get into how good she will feel (even though it won't) sucking your dick and how good it will feel for you. This will turn her on sooo badly and she will be all over you.

Last time I used this:

- After kissing and taking clothes off "You have great lips"
- A bit more kissing and touchy feely
- 3 minutes later "I love your lips, I want them around me
- Enjoy

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When she's giving me a handjob, I'll just say "use your mouth". Works often enough.

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I'm not that big on bjs, they are great but very few girls give good bjs. Most have no clue how to give a good one(I've had a total of 3 girls who gave good bjs not very impressive). That said I am a big fan of a the Law of reciprocation, what you give her she'll give you. I know a lot of girls that don't like to give BJs, but that didn't stop them from giving me one. If you go down on a girl, she will feel as if she owes you something in return, if you know how to do it right that is(if you give bad head why should they give you any?), which once again many guys have no clue what they are doing.

Make a woman gracious and she will return every favor you ask for. Make her blow you 5 times without giving her anything why the hell should she care to stay around you? If you went down on a girl 5 times and she did nothing for you would you care to stay with her? Just because you go down on a girl doesn't mean she got off, that would be the most important factor with the law of reciprocation. A girl feels like she owes me a good bj after I'm done. Getting a blow job is an easy request.

I always hear things like she might go to another guy, if you are the best fuck in her life she won't go for some other guy. Especially if you combine that with a huge attraction. In fact, if she gets another guy(if you are like me and refuse relationships while trying to set up on going sex with one individual you aren't in a relationship with) she will still think about you and want you even after joining a new relationship, the only thing she wanted from you was a relationship which you weren't willing to give her.

If you think girls don't have the same thoughts on sex you are wrong, she doesn't just want to blow you, she wants something in return. Girls want to have good sex, and have orgasms too. If you are someone who consistently does great in those areas she will return repeatedly. It is also quite the ego boost to know you are the best fuck a girl ever had. Quite a confidence boost when the girl doesn't know what she is missing out on, after all you are capable of giving a girl the best time she has ever had sexually.

I do like Athenian's lead up to the BJ, gold. That said I just push their head down there and they go from there, I ask sometimes, most of the time I just say something like I know you want to kiss it while they are playing with me. Like I said my style is to make them cum so hard that they do it in reciprocation. If you find a better way I'd be surprised.

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Actually most girls absolutely love giving head, although not many will openly admit to it for fear of being labeled as sluts.

Once they feel comfortable and safe around you, some girls want nothing more than to wrap their lips around your cock. Giving them some encouragement, giving them a little bit of direction and letting them know how good it feels will get her doing it more and more often.

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here is what i do:

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Thanks for that. So can I get a bit more specific. Do you think about things like I gave her head now were is my head? Or, she gave me head now I owe her one or two? What if I dont keep track and eat all kinds of crazy pussy, will she take me for granted and not blow me as much? I hear about guys who eat a lot of pussy. I have never been in a relationship like that. Ok, I am feeling like I am selfish in this area.

Well that was informative I like these routines as well, thanks all I will use them. I have always got blown first, then I eat her out. So now I am thinking of being more giving in this area. I should learn to eat pussy better. Haha, I got head ho syndrome!!

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And skills360 that's bold man.

Can I ask, how old are you? I do not think I will be pulling this one off anytime soon. But I admire, haahaha your enthusiasm.

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36 now, bold=confidence=women attraction, do it, there are many other puas doing similar stuff with success, i put another link there...

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Na, I don't think in terms of who owes who. It ain't my style to think oh I gave her 20 orgasms tonight, now she owes me 20. I love doing it because most of the women I've slept with have me in at least the top 3 sexual partners(the best in a lot of cases), it's a point of pride. On quite a few girls I was the best they ever had. That is quite the compliment and it is great to be able to say that with girls, for your confidence and for experience.

It's just not about what I get, everything you give will be returned. Maybe not by this girl, but by the next. Think about this way if you do get in a relationship, don't you want to be in a relationship with someone who reciprocates? So you find this early on in the most intimate way possible.

So give head and enjoy being the person who takes them to pure ecstasy. A lot of girls love to give head so they don't mind it, but for those who don't enjoy giving head they will do it because they enjoy giving you the feeling you just gave them.

I would highly recommend learning to be a great sexual partner. It does a lot for your confidence, and word does get around. Girls start to imagine what it's like to be with someone like you who knows what to do, who can make them cum for minutes at a time, for hrs on end.

Sex isn't about being a great partner for one girl, it's about looking at her reaction and knowing what she likes. Some girls like when you pull their head, others don't. Some girls like when you bite others don't, some girls like when you eat them out others don't. The point is to gauge what a girl likes. You can always count on body language to know what arouses her and what turns her off. If you'd like I can go on and on. The point is to figure out how to do everything and then figure out what each girl likes by asking and trial and error.

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I put my penis in her face. =D

Seriously, I'll go down on her for awhile then I'll get up and just position myself so that my penis is a few inches from her face. It's that easy. Most girls love giving head. Any girl who hesitates at that point typically has some kind of sexual hang-up. If it happens, then I'll look at her funny at that point, move on to other stuff, and then ask her about it later. It doesn't happen often.

-Wolf

I am head obsessed. I usually already know what a woman's views on giving head is. Its practically one of the first questions i ask ( once comfort is set)

But in the odd cases where i do not know their views, or how to ask for it. While we are getting into the heavy petting ( kissing, etc) I will often tell a woman my favorite place to get kissed is on my lower stomach and hips, and try to coax her into doing just that. Once she is down there, and starts to kiss my hip area, i will then undo my pants and slide them down enough so she can get to my hip. As she is doing this, I will slowly pull down that side until I am completely exposed, this is usually enough for the woman to initiate head, if not i will motion my body( dick) closer to her mouth as she is kissing and the closer she gets to it on her own, I will escalate my excitement with sounds and heavier breathing.

If the girl is down for giving head, she will do it right then. If she is not down for it, she will just continue kissing you either come back up or tell you straight up she doesnt want to give you head.

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Pull it out...that is half the battle. When it's out, girls will naturally gravitate towards it. If they stroke it, tell them you would like to feel their lips on it. And in this particular situation, those corny lines do work "just kiss it,"or "only for a second."

One of the better lines i've read from another member on this forum was to tell the girl that
You: most girl nowadays suck at giving head.
Her: That's not true.
You: Prove it.


REMEMBER THIS- Girls enjoy giving guys blowjobs.

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I agree, I think it gives them a sense of power over a man.

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