When men give a lot of attention to women, they start to get used to it. They will (on purpose) pretend they are not attracted to you in order for you to work harder to win them over with additional courting.

Women constantly need validation. Even the most independant "bitches" need male validation. It makes them feel great about themselves. While some men get discouraged when women test them or make them jump through hoops, it's actually going to benefit the men in the end. Contrary to popular opinion in the community, if you can survive a woman's tests and games, she won't see you as supplicating, she will feel inclined to give back to you the good feelings you are making her experience.

However, other annoying things women do like flake on dates can be attributed to a woman's negative opinion of herself. Women worry all the time that something will go wrong in their lives. All women are very conscious about how they are perceived, even if they don't show it. In fact, you may see women who seem perfectly comfortable in their own skin, but that's usually not the real truth being shown.

Women can't make decisions that well (if at all). That's why it's your role as a man to give her direction. Men should be direct with women in their interactions to overcome women's tests and games.

I wish I wrote this. Well put sir.

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The fact that we dedicate a forum and and entire community to figuring out how to get women truly illustrates who is the player.

We do magic tricks and make up routines and buy nice cars to impress them, and at the end of the day, they get all this cool shit and the greatest gift we get from them is their approval.

We are the bitches, gentlemen...

hmmm....I never knew that all women operate on the same things interesting. We live in a simple simple world where people on PUA forums can make broad sociological arguments that define 50 percent of the worlds population. Maybe you should go for your PHD because now I understand this simple world much much better

he's actually quite right (Not referring of course to the last few sentences which are kinda sexist).
f course you cant make a generalization but alot of women do love games
and making a guy work a bit hard for them. I dont think you can expect otherwise
from someone who is constantly being hit on and has to choose between of hundreds of different people the few who do match their standards.
Even if this isnt always true, it makes things alot simpler when you think about it this way cause then :

a) You dont feel like a total wuss when you try hard cause lets face it :
Women and especially the attractive ones can sometimes give you a hard time.

b) its alot easier to make decisions without thinking too much.

It's not playing games as putting you through the interview process. I love the statement made from Van Wilder when he tells the girl "It's a date". Her response was "It's an interview." His response was "First dates are interviews".

You are "trying out" for the job. Girls have to have some standards to sleep with a guy, and all those little "shit tests" are you being put through the interview process. It is good that she puts them through the interview process, but if you can impress the interviewer you accomplish your goal. That interviewer can be a cute girl or someone for a job. You have to make the proper impression.

I do agree with that, but all those generalizations at the end really take away a lot of your credibility(to say it very politely).

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