How do I reagain interest at a girl who used to like me? I`ve tried some things, but I found myself being too mean or too nice or hard-try.. And none of it worked.

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

Sid, once you lose interest of a girl it's really hard to get it back. Hard but not impossible. So, the way to get her interest again is by not giving her interest. Be friends with her and talk to other girls while with her and just have fun. Not for the purpose of making her jealous but for the purpose of just having fun. After a while she'll start thinking why is this guy hooking up with all these girls but not even trying to hook up with me. Girls have this crazy feeling if they feel rejected because girls aren't used to rejection. And girls will do anything in their power to turn this rejection into acceptance. After a while she will start to try to grab your attention and do many small things to accomplish that. Then she will move to bigger things only if you do give her some interest when she does small things. Good luck.

- Amazing Art -

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

The reason she's not interested in you is ironically because you are trying to get her to be interested in you; you have placed more value on her and put her on a pedestal - thus, it doesn't matter if you're "nice" or "mean" or whatever, little things, such as subconscious body language, will give this away to her.
Read this:
easiest-way-to-save-a-dying-relationship-vt94002.html

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Rep me if I helped!

I guess I`ve been kind of a hard-try with all this. Like you said, I just have to relax Tnx

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.