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| Kier | PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 3:33 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:47 am Posts: 5 Location: UK | | Hi I'm Kier and this is my first thread. Please note that I'm very intoxicated as I write this. Tonight I went out with my housemates and ran game on a number of girls as I usually do. I'm no PUA and would be closer to AFC but I'm not socially inept and nor am I too affraid of chatting up girls on a night out. Where I excel on a night out I do not transfer to every day life. Now I am very lathargic when it comes to girls, over freshers week and the week after I have K-closed and n-closed a number of girls but the day after rarely text back because I know I'd only be interested in shagging, only interested for superficial reasons and I'm unltimately looking to really connect with a girl not just stick my dick in her for the sake of ego and male bravado. Now tonight I met a girl that really sparked my interest, I've got plenty of girls numbers and plenty of interest from others girls but none have invoked feelings inside myself such as this one. She is strong, sexy, empowered and a 1st year politics student (same course as me although I'm 3rd year plus it is very hard to meet a politically aware girl). She is similar to the only other girl in my life that has sparked interest in me, she strikes me as a maneater and girl that could get anything she wants from a man. We chatted in the smoking area of a club and she first initiated interested and I played hard to get due me knowing how this kind of girl worked, I got her number before leaving as I had to meet up with my friends. Now long before I met this girl I met another girl when I was totally AFC who I really really liked but I think after a while she was tired of my AFC ways. Now after this unarticulated paragragh, the question I'm asking is do I pretend to be some cocky/funny guy who isn't truely me or do I show my real self (whilst not being as AFC as before when I messed it up with the last girl). I'd rather fuck it up being me and know for sure than fuck it up using some ill advised PUA material. It has been at least a year and half since I felt this way about a girl and I'm desperate not to fuck it up with this girl. The girl before who was similar to the one I met tonight clearly liked me even when I was purely AFC and after reading game theory I'm scared to project some PUA bullshit that isn't truely me. Your thoughts would be very appreciated. Now I am to go to sleep and see what I wake up to tomorrow. Peace.
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| JamesTRN | PostPosted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 10:58 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Sep 24, 2011 2:35 pm Posts: 36 Website: http://therebornnatural.com | | It's a bit hard to make a judgement call about what you should do based on one paragraph of text.
The action you probably want to take: get her on a date and use that as a chance to get to know each other better. Do yourself a favour and don't hold out on sex because you think she's too special to jump straight into bed with. The sooner you two sleep together, the better the frame for the relationship.
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