| (Warning - Long post but it's stacked with good information, trust me if you read this, take the time and understand it, it will change your results for the better)
This post will be all about making a conversational routine stack
First up let me say, that you are the one stearing the conversation, you are the one that will take it to where you want it, but in saying that don't just stick to the script, stick to the general idea but go with the flow use the techniques in the other two posts or other systems and have your stack there as general game plan so you always are moving to conversation and interaction to where it needs to be.
You can also use my How To Use Framing to escalate and Pumping Buying Temperature post to pass shit tests and tease in a natural way without having too many scripted teasing routines or lines, the only things I think about now are my opening stories, my framing rountines and fallowing my stack (game plan, I don't think about models I don't think about A1 A2 A3 C1.... or any other system etc etc etc I just go with the flow and use my stack as a basic guide line.
EXAMPLE 1. El Topos Redstack (My notes will be highlighted)
Opening (at opener engage in touching, you don’t have to do it continuously, just begin it. For myself I just touch them on the arm and don’t escalate till I bait them into more comfort.)
Direct
(In using direct, you need to carry it quickly into conversation, these openers won’t get you anywhere if you don’t jump threads right away.)
“Hey, you guys seem nice, are you friendly?”
“So where do all the cool people hang out?”
For me at this point I would ask them how there nights going and introduce myself etc and I'd probably add in a story about something that happened the previous week depending on what they give me, or just use something from your past and pretend it was last week.
E.g. "the last time I was in this club, I seen a girl walk past with a cool hair cut, so I said (hey, I like your hair) as she walked past, you know just being nice, well she turned around with a big smile and said Thank you, but at the same time she hit my friends drink out of his hand and it went all over her dress, she then looked at us like we had just thrown the drink over her, like super angry looken as if we had to say sorry or she was going to hit us or something lol, I had to laugh when my friend said (ok so you knock my drink out of my hand and your angry!) she didnt know what to do, I just laughed and she walked off, poor girl I understand her being annoyed but blaming us lol what a dick!, some people just need to chill out and stop being so wound up all the time and just relax and be cool!"
Opinion
“Hey guys, I have got to ask you, my friend Michelle and I were here the other night and there were these two making out in the middle of the walk way, but really they were like in the middle of the walkway. I like totally don’t get how people think that is like ok. You know like when I was dating my ex-girlfriend, she is a dancer, we would, like to be together at places, and sometimes but we had a booth or something. Like seriously next time I see that I am going to go up to the guy and girl and give them a condom or something."
This is a framing story, its framing discreetion, my story above is similar but its framing behaviour.
So how do you guys all know each other?
Simple Social Scripted Question but you can get alot of information from it, remember it!
That’s cool, cause I am from Hawaii and I am not used to how people socialize here. I mean I have been here for years, but…
From here he could tranistion into another story
So here is my qualification
“Hey you know what, you guys are cool, so what do you do when you’re not hanging out at (name venue)?”
Answer doesn’t matter,
“Wow, really. That’s actually really cool
You can ask any questions at this point if you are curious about anything, or you can mention people you know that do the same job and even what they think about it.
I am a...
I want to be...
At the minute I'm trying to...
You can add any grounding stories here, any opinions on your situation, even just move into talking about what you're doing in life. This isn't the path I would take because my prefered conversation is stuff about dating and gossip on people, relationship stuff and stuff on society issues regarding sex and the differences on how men are treated compared to women, but thats all my framing stuff and not a chance am I giving that away for free lol this example isn't complete, its just a general overview of how you can progress into conversation, it will not get you laid, but the next is a stack with elements of real game included minus the situational stuff like passing shit tests, kino, teasing and so on, and you will still need to know how and when to go for the kiss!!
EXAMPLE 2 Captian Jack
Usually I get into proximity before I make my move then I'll use my opener
Hey is that nose ring real?
This opener is a low investment opener, you don't have to use this but the idea is there, for example, you want a light, you ask for it the transition into a story about how you are trying to give up smoking but every week you go out to the smoking area and end up smoking and joke about how your friends always give you grief about having no will power, then transition from there. But its can be about anything , asking what her cocktail is any functional question, use your imagination, you can even use opinion openers or the likes of mysteries Tall Girl Routine, just like the examples given in EXAMPLE 1.
Check this out, not to long ago I was in New york and I met this girl and I said something to make her laugh and when I did her nose ring came off and started rolling around on the floor, she was like "help me pick it up!" and I said no, so now I have one less fan in New York.
Usually they will talk about their piercings or ask him what he was doing in New York so he'll talk about that for a few minutes till the thread gets old then...
You know what you seem interesting (jealous ex deleted my numbers)
You're not the jealous type are you? Well I was with my friends and we where at the hooka bar that we go to almost every weds and I was hanging out with this girl and she didn't have to work that night or all that day and we had takin alot of pictures, she grabbed my phone and I thought she was looking at the pictures but later on when I went to phone people to go to a party I noticed that she had deleted all the female numbers on my phone.
Normally they'll say omg I can't believe she did that, and she'll probably talk about something similar, and just have a normal conversation, about what ever subjects you want, any qualification travel talk, career talk whatever.
Then eventually he'll get to either Strawberry Fields or Rings on Fingers
Then Timebridge
You know what you're cool to talk/fun to talk to we should hang out, my friends and I we're going to be at the hooka bar, have you ever been? its awsome, the musics low so you can actually talk to your friends and you lay on pillows its cool and after that sometimes we find out if theres anything going on and we head there, its real low key we're going weds you should come along, cool well here let me get your number.
Personally I do not set a time bridge as I don't have a standard one, instead I go for the kiss I usually will not take a number unless I get a kiss or I use getting the number as an excuse to get a kiss.
We'll leave it there, anything further would take allot of work to explain and since this was only to show how to get into onversation and maintain it I'll leave it at that.
Hope this helps
Any questions ask away.
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