Na, I don't think in terms of who owes who. It ain't my style to think oh I gave her 20 orgasms tonight, now she owes me 20. I love doing it because most of the women I've slept with have me in at least the top 3 sexual partners(the best in a lot of cases), it's a point of pride. On quite a few girls I was the best they ever had. That is quite the compliment and it is great to be able to say that with girls, for your confidence and for experience.

It's just not about what I get, everything you give will be returned. Maybe not by this girl, but by the next. Think about this way if you do get in a relationship, don't you want to be in a relationship with someone who reciprocates? So you find this early on in the most intimate way possible.

So give head and enjoy being the person who takes them to pure ecstasy. A lot of girls love to give head so they don't mind it, but for those who don't enjoy giving head they will do it because they enjoy giving you the feeling you just gave them.

I would highly recommend learning to be a great sexual partner. It does a lot for your confidence, and word does get around. Girls start to imagine what it's like to be with someone like you who knows what to do, who can make them cum for minutes at a time, for hrs on end.

Sex isn't about being a great partner for one girl, it's about looking at her reaction and knowing what she likes. Some girls like when you pull their head, others don't. Some girls like when you bite others don't, some girls like when you eat them out others don't. The point is to gauge what a girl likes. You can always count on body language to know what arouses her and what turns her off. If you'd like I can go on and on. The point is to figure out how to do everything and then figure out what each girl likes by asking and trial and error.

I disagree, some girls love giving head, some girls hate giving head, and some girls just love pleasing someone. Just like some girls like when you go down on them and others think it's gross(the few girls who I have met that hated getting head loved giving head weirdly). Everything has to do with her outlook on sex.

And some girls love giving head but hate admitting it because of how they perceive girls who enjoy giving head(slutty, tasteless, whatever negative outlook they see). While I agree a larger population of women like giving head then initially perceived by the public to the point where I think it's pretty unordinary when a woman doesn't enjoy giving head, but there are those few who don't like it one bit. That said even girls that don't like giving head will love giving you pleasure if you give her a ton of pleasure she will want to return the favor. At least that his been my own personal experience. Girls who don't like giving head will reciprocate if it feels worth it.

So question; what do you do about girls who do not like to give head. Do you just ignore the issue all together. Maybe I just love getting head? Like its not fly in my book to not get it. I feel great. I feel boss getting head. The quality women I want around me, I want to blow me. That is just how I feel. Is there something wrong with how I think. I am sure that some of this is just her insecurities. The one I am thinking about does alot right in bed, except for head. I am just reaching a point in my life when I am not shy in bed about this anymore. I am congruent with the fact that this is me and I am going to be this person. Call it a big ego or whatever you want. I do agree with you that girls will reciprocate the feelings you give them.

The girl I am thinking about is just a insecure HB8. I will continue to go down on her in the hopes that she just chills the F out around me and sucks my cock. I will keep you posted on if she sucks the schlong or not. haha.

I am head obsessed. I usually already know what a woman's views on giving head is. Its practically one of the first questions i ask ( once comfort is set)

But in the odd cases where i do not know their views, or how to ask for it. While we are getting into the heavy petting ( kissing, etc) I will often tell a woman my favorite place to get kissed is on my lower stomach and hips, and try to coax her into doing just that. Once she is down there, and starts to kiss my hip area, i will then undo my pants and slide them down enough so she can get to my hip. As she is doing this, I will slowly pull down that side until I am completely exposed, this is usually enough for the woman to initiate head, if not i will motion my body( dick) closer to her mouth as she is kissing and the closer she gets to it on her own, I will escalate my excitement with sounds and heavier breathing.

If the girl is down for giving head, she will do it right then. If she is not down for it, she will just continue kissing you either come back up or tell you straight up she doesnt want to give you head.

Well like I said I do it for them and they do it for me, that is it. I like getting head too but like I said most girls like giving it or returning it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with loving getting head, my only issue with getting head is once you get a very good blow job the next few don't seem nearly as enjoyable. A lot of girls just don't give a good blow job.

She isn't returning the favor yet? Seriously? Use some of those guys tips where you get their hand on it and say you want their lips wrapped around it.

I agree, I think it gives them a sense of power over a man.

Hey SexAddict911, you still getting head from girls online. haha. How do you handle the rejection man. That is the best advice I think you can give me. Like do you ever just get bold and eat her pussy just to warm her up for the cock. Then you put you cock next to her face and she is disinterested. (So that hits the ego.) I am working on handling that one. Straight up I know I am average if you consider that 6in. Working with that in mind, (I hate rejection of sucking the cac.) Honestly a women should inspire, motivate, create more good in me based on what she and me thinks is good. Basicly she should suck my cock because I am awesome and that is the perspective I take on it. All that prob does not apply to you SexAddict because I know your about the best sex with dimes once or twice. I am more about the best sex with 2 or 3 girls a couple different times a week. The I can hopefully transform her in to my ideal this and that. I agree I am all about the head too bro. That is why I started this topic.

I find that if you openly show your like for head, while getting to know a female, if she likes you she will make the effort to please you. It's very rare to encounter women that will not give head. Being good at is is a whole other can of worms.

I have had many many women tell me they were amazing at it and in fact! they sucked. lol ( sometimes literally)

This can also be remedied by coaching during. I have only had a few women get pissed off at being coached while performing. In general most will be compliant, as long as you show constant excitement during.

Here's a trick i have used when women do not want you to cum in their mouths but you want to.

They make sure that you will let them know when you are about to bust. you comply and say you will tell them. So as you are exploding in there mouth( lol) yell out! IM CUMMING. lol, its a way to do it without getting complete shit from the woman afterwards.

Actually most girls absolutely love giving head, although not many will openly admit to it for fear of being labeled as sluts.

Once they feel comfortable and safe around you, some girls want nothing more than to wrap their lips around your cock. Giving them some encouragement, giving them a little bit of direction and letting them know how good it feels will get her doing it more and more often.

agreed, in my experience, its not the actual blowjob that they enjoy, it's making you feel good (i.e. making love to you)-just make sure to let her now you're really enjoying it, and it makes you feel great.

Ok, I hope noone takes this the wrong way, but I think women should learn how to give head from gay porn. Nobody handles a penis the way a guy does. Technicalities aside, the biggest turn on in oral sex is when you feel the person giving it is totally enjoying it.

Technicalities aside, the biggest turn on in oral sex is when you feel the person giving it is totally enjoying it.