So, quite a few girls that know me well have commented on my style of game, because I guess it is kind of unique. I basically come across as kind of a nice guy and give off a friendly vibe but when I get talkin I'm able to close a lot. I guess what they mean is I come across as a traditional "nice guy" but once they get to know me I'm not really like that. I guess when a girl meets me they often don't see it coming that I'm able to fuck them or something like that because I seem nice or something.

So, basically when I go to the bars around here (college town) I do quite well when I find myself talking to some girls but my constraint is the first few seconds, when the girl is deciding if there is hookup potential or not, to see if she should invest in a conversation with me or go elsewhere. Since I guess I come across as nice, that often triggers some girls to not think I'm worth the investment.

So the question becomes, how can I alter my approach to hook the girls in conversation for a minute or two so my game has a chance to set in.

I typically just walk up and say hi and ask her name. Some of them happily engage in conversation and some of them say their name and start making that decision. I want to give off more energy and more of a sexual impression when I introduce myself to capitalize on more opportunities? I posted this in natural game because I don't do any theory stuff I just get talkin and escalate.

anon90210, great post I had the same problem just be more touchy and kino more in short.

Hey there guys am not a PUA just yet but am working really hard on finding my style, what I normally do when is the 3 second rule, introduce my self and ask to sit down before she replies am sitting down put my arm around her in a comfortable position (when I say around her am referring placing my arm on her chair or stretching it on across the couch) the point is to make her feel that you are confident, and almost all girls give out their name with a smile and engage in conversation more freely...

If your problem is fixing the way you approach someone, the ONLY way to do it, is trying to fix it every time you approach someone until you overwrite your old "approaching habit". There is no simpler way to do it.

Generally, a girl calls "nice guy" a guy who don't look like he has sexual interest for the girl (or for anyone, a classic white knight beta male). So my tip would be: Try being more man to woman. Give little teases and keep with the conversation. Intensifying and releasing sexual pressure in the conversation.

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