i have a few solid variations on eye contact, and this one is definitely the most intense and sexual. it works best on cocky, pretty women who have guys all over them in general. a couple months ago one such woman was aggressively eyeing me at a bar, and here's the look i gave her:

basically you look her dead in the eyes as though she is a man challenging you. then depending on if she breaks or not, you kinda widen your eyes and exaggerate the fact that you are staring right at her and she needs to chill the fuck out with her staring. it's not a fearful wide-eye, it's cocky as hell, basically making fun of her glare at you. they instantly break every time because it's such a jump from the typical sexy eyes back and forth. and now you have communicated much higher value than her.

another good one that works better for less aggressive women is to kinda narrow your eyes at them with a sly look. this one should be done from an angle or in passing, not dead on. also it should be quicker, don't hold it. communicate you've got more important shit to be doing.

but remember, you generally don't want to be scanning the room for women. if they get into your range of vision, go for it. if you catch them staring at you, absolutely go for it. but make sure you're doing your own thing and she is just kinda getting in your way.

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Just fucking look at her.
Stop thinking about it and just do it, things will flow naturally.

There is no "eye contact game" it's instinct

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Dude just maintain eye contact with a cheeky smile and force an IOI(Indicator Of Interest) by slightly waving and then approaching her,never keep staring at her and do nothing *Its Creepy*.If you dont want to talk to her then and there then avoid eye contact give her your back and go talk to a group of other OK looking girls to demonstrate preselection(look it up!). *Dont be found sitting doing nothing its unattractive and demonstrates no social proof* Read a book even! Do Anything but just sit!

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Dude just maintain eye contact with a cheeky smile and force an IOI(Indicator Of Interest) by slightly waving and then approaching her,never keep staring at her and do nothing *Its Creepy*.If you dont want to talk to her then and there then avoid eye contact give her your back and go talk to a group of other OK looking girls to demonstrate preselection(look it up!). *Dont be found sitting doing nothing its unattractive and demonstrates no social proof* Read a book even! Do Anything but just sit!

P.S -Im also a Student

This has boggled me for a long time. When a girl looks away and up while you make eye contact what exactly does it mean? I continue to make eye contact but I feel like it's saying they are above me or it will never work.

Also is it me or are people afraid to make eye contact with each other? This happens a lot on the train, I make eye contact with stranger (women or man) and they instantly look away. Kinda makes it hard to say hi to them if it's litterally a 1 second glance then look away.

Didn't mean to hijack the thread btw..

Funnily enough, this is the one thing that always gets me. I have this really stupid approach to it now, but it helps so much.

So when I game, I imagine that I'm a knight, sword, shield, armor and all. I'm back from slaying a massive dragon at it's castle atop a mountain, and I'm heading to town for a tankard of mead from the tavern.

Oh look, a pretty girl. Am I scared? Fuck no, I'm not scared of anything. So I hold a gaze of pure steel, and then beeline for the approach.

Works every time, and your always on guard for attacking dragons too.

No men wants to make eye contact with other strange men. Not talking about gays here obviously. Man vs man contact is considered threatening.

As for women - most are shy, especially in train situations. Also many could just not like you. Combine those reasons and that is why majority would not hold it.

Speaking of staring, some gym related experience:
I did this with a 9 in the gym. She was staring at me. I turned around and started starting at her. She held for about 30s. Then she broke off eye contact and never looked at me again. Later on, she avoided eye contact with me. Not sure what I did wrong there.

With two other 7s in the gym, I made eye contact and smiled. They smiled back. Later they just avoided eye contact, but would smile whenever passing by. Not sure what to make of that. Should I have approached?

Another 8 I approached while she was working out. She looked interested right away. I asked to work in, made a joke, she laughed. Then as she was leaving, she smiled at me and I smiled back. Afterwards though, she avoided eye contact. WTF?

I know the gym isn't the best pickup environment, but there are so many sweaty scantily clad hot babes where I work out that the temptation to pickup is irresistible.

Am I conveying interest too early? Do I need to be more indirect?

Hey bro, she doesn't think she is above you. She is probably just self-conscious. Most girls (and guys) get nervous holding eye contact a long time.

Don't overthink it, and certainly don't try and mind read. It will slow down your progress.

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